Second Dates and Ideas
A good plan makes a date easier, because you're not both searching for something to say. These articles give date ideas for coffee, drinks, dinner and activities, and explain how to choose between them. They also cover how soon to ask for a second date and what to do afterward. Use them when you need a plan.
- Is One Date Considered Dating?Relationships, 5 min read
- Signs She Liked You After the First DateAttraction, 5 min read
- How Should You Feel After a First Date?Psychology, 5 min read
- How to Follow Up After a Date Without Asking PermissionRelationships, 5 min read
- The Home Date: A Perfect Date Idea to Get GirlfriendsRelationships, 6 min read
- Messaging Women on Friday NightTexting, 5 min read
- 10 Ways Guys Waste Time In-Venue (and Don’t Meet Women)Approach, 8 min read
- 13 Date Planning Tips to Plan Awesome DatesRelationships, 8 min read
- 4 Steps to Move Things Forward Physically With WomenAttraction, 7 min read
- 5 Underrated Date IdeasRelationships, 5 min read
- Beginner's Guide to Moving Things Forward, Pt. 3: When She ResistsAttraction, 5 min read
- Flake-Proof Date PlansRelationships, 5 min read
- How and When to Change Venues on a Date or PickupRelationships, 6 min read
- How to Become "the Guy" in Any Venue That You FrequentApproach, 7 min read
- How to Get a Second Date After a First MeetRelationships, 4 min read
- How to Invite a Woman Back to Your Place After a Date Without Making It AwkwardRelationships, 4 min read
- How to Match Your Energy to the Room You Are InAttraction, 6 min read
- How to Meet Women at Gay Bars, Part 1: Types of VenuesApproach, 8 min read
- How to Move Things Forward Physically Without PressureAdvanced, 8 min read
- How to Move Things Forward Without Rushing HerAdvanced, 5 min read
- How to Respectfully Take the Next Step With Women as a GentlemanAttraction, 6 min read
- How to Say No to a Second Date PolitelyRelationships, 5 min read
- How to Stop Feeling Like Everyone Is Watching You at a Club or BarApproach, 5 min read
- How to Stop Replaying Everything You Said After a DateAdvanced, 5 min read
- How to Take the Next Step With a Woman Who's in a GroupApproach, 6 min read
- How to Take the Next Step With Women in Your Social CircleLifestyle, 6 min read
- How to Talk to Women at an Upscale Bar When You're Not RichAdvanced, 5 min read
- How to Tell a Woman You're Not Interested Over Text After a DateRelationships, 4 min read
- Is Ghosting Okay After a First Date?Online Dating, 5 min read
- Making Venue Transitions FunApproach, 6 min read
- Meeting Women in Noisy Nightlife Venues, Part 2: Dealing With NoiseAttraction, 6 min read
- Moving Things Forward Before You Run Out of Time (the 'Clock Block')Relationships, 6 min read
- No 2nd Date? Here’s Why (Top 3 Mistakes)Relationships, 4 min read
- Picking Up Women in After-Hours VenuesApproach, 6 min read
- Picking Up Women: Selecting the Right VenueApproach, 6 min read
- Plan the Date So Nobody Has to Ask What to DoRelationships, 5 min read
- Romantic Dates Can Still PullRelationships, 5 min read
- Should You Unmatch After a Date?Online Dating, 5 min read
- Venue Selection for Maximum Date SuccessAdvanced, 9 min read
- What Are Good Date Ideas in NYC?Relationships, 5 min read
- What Are Good Date Ideas?Relationships, 5 min read
- What Are Good First Date Ideas?Relationships, 5 min read
- What Are Good Free Date Ideas?Relationships, 5 min read
- What Are Good Second Date Ideas?Relationships, 5 min read
- What Is the Best Night of the Week to Go Out to Meet Women?Advanced, 6 min read
- What Night and What Time Is Best to Meet Women at a Bar or Club?Approach, 4 min read
- What to Talk About on a Second DateRelationships, 5 min read
- When She's Not Ready for the Next StepAttraction, 6 min read
- When to Text After a First DateRelationships, 5 min read
- Where You Go Changes Your Odds: 5 Types of Venue, Part 2Approach, 6 min read
- Why Am I Not Getting Second Dates? Fun Tonight Versus a Future With YouOnline Dating, 5 min read
- Why Good Chances Keep Turning Into No Second DateAdvanced, 6 min read
- Windows for Taking the Next StepGeneral, 5 min read
- Beginner's Guide to Moving Things Forward, Pt. 1: When to Take the Next StepAttraction, 6 min read
- Date Templates: Minimize Confusion, Maximize ReturnsRelationships, 6 min read
- Does Going to the Same Bar Every Weekend Hurt Your Chances With Women?Approach, 5 min read
- First Date Ideas If You Do Not DrinkLifestyle, 5 min read
- First Date Ideas When Bars and Restaurants Are Closed or LimitedRelationships, 3 min read
- First Date Ideas When You Are Hard of HearingRelationships, 5 min read
- How Do You Get a Woman to Stay the Night After a First Date?Relationships, 4 min read
- How Do You Pick Up Women in a Venue With Too Many Men?Approach, 5 min read
- How Far in Advance to Plan a Date?Online Dating, 5 min read
- How Long Do Guys Wait to Ask for a Second Date?Online Dating, 5 min read
- How to Ask a Woman if Everything is OkayOnline Dating, 5 min read
- How to Ask for a Second Date over TextOnline Dating, 5 min read
- How to Ask for a Second Date Without Sounding DesperateOnline Dating, 5 min read
- How to Break an Awkward Silence on a DateRelationships, 5 min read
- How to Get a Third DateRelationships, 5 min read
- How to Get a Woman to Leave the Bar With You and Go to Another VenueApproach, 4 min read
- How to Make a Woman Want to See You Again After a First DateTexting, 4 min read
- How to Pick a Date Spot That Makes the Date EasyRelationships, 5 min read
- How to Start Dating Again After a Long BreakRelationships, 6 min read
- How to Take a Woman From the Bar to a Second VenueApproach, 5 min read
- Is a Coffee Date Really a Date?Relationships, 5 min read
- Long Distance Date Ideas for Keeping the SparkRelationships, 5 min read
- Moving Things Forward Without GuessingAttraction, 5 min read
- Should You Ask a Woman for Coffee or Give Her a Specific Reason to Meet?Approach, 5 min read
- Should You Ever Date a Woman With Baggage?Relationships, 5 min read
- Should You Tell a Date You Stutter Before You Meet?Relationships, 5 min read
- Should You Text Thank You After a First Date?Relationships, 4 min read
- Stop Staying in Nice Chat Mode and Move Things ForwardAdvanced, 5 min read
- The Home Date: A Low-Stakes Plan Instead of Dinner and DrinksRelationships, 6 min read
- Venue Priming (Get There Early!)Approach, 6 min read
- What Are Good First Date Ideas in a Small Town?Relationships, 5 min read
- What Are Good Last-Minute Valentine's Day Date Ideas?Lifestyle, 5 min read
- What Are Good Third Date Ideas?Relationships, 5 min read
- What Are Good Third Date Questions?Relationships, 5 min read
- What Does the Third Date Mean?Relationships, 5 min read
- What Is the Third Date Rule?Relationships, 5 min read
- When to Stay in a Nightlife Venue vs. When to GoApproach, 6 min read
- Where to Take a Woman for a Spontaneous Coffee Date in ManhattanApproach, 5 min read
- Where to Take a Woman for a Spontaneous Date in Brickell or WynwoodApproach, 5 min read
- Where to Take a Woman for a Spontaneous Drink in BrooklynApproach, 5 min read
- Where to Take a Woman on a First Date in CollegeRelationships, 5 min read
- Why You Need to Explore Different Venues as a Night GamerApproach, 6 min read
- Winning the Tug-of-War for a Woman in a VenueApproach, 6 min read
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