Mentorship Program
Stop struggling with women. Start learning from men who know what works.
Your own coach every week. Direct answers between calls. The full Cold Approach team behind you.
Apply for Mentorship ›Weekly private coaching·
See what personal mentorship can do for your game.
Matthew explains what weekly mentorship looks like, why direct feedback accelerates improvement, and how the program adapts to your actual dating life.
Watch this first if you’re considering Mentorship.
I was dating consistently and for the first time, I felt like dating was something I could control instead of just hoping for something to happen.
David
The same sticking points don’t have to keep getting the same results.
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You see her. You don’t approach.Work on the hesitation and uncertainty that keep stopping you before the conversation begins.
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You can talk. You struggle to create attraction.Get coaching on flirting, delivery, and moving beyond conversations that stay polite or platonic.
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You get numbers or matches. Then nothing happens.Bring your actual messages to your coach and work on turning interest into dates.
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You get dates. They don’t go where you want.Get guidance on conversation, chemistry, reading the situation, and moving things forward.
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You’ve been learning game for years, and you’ve stalled.Find the weaknesses that more of the same practice isn’t fixing.
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You want better options, or a relationship you’re excited about.Build your coaching around the women you want to meet and the dating life you want to create.
You don’t have to know exactly what’s wrong before you apply. That’s part of what your coach helps you work out.
Not another course you watch.
A coach you work with.
Your coach gets to know your dating life, what you want, and where you keep getting stuck. Then you work together on making real progress, not starting from scratch every time you book a call.
Your own 60-minute coaching session, every week
Bring your approaches, text conversations, dates, and questions. Get personal feedback on what is happening and what to work on next.
Direct answers between calls
A conversation goes quiet. A date raises questions. An approach leaves you wondering what happened. Send it to your coach. Unlimited messaging is included, with replies within 24 hours.
Access to the full five-coach team
Your primary coach knows your situation. The group chat gives you access to additional expertise in daygame, nightgame, online dating, texting, and relationships.
The training behind the coaching
The Complete Dating System, its ten playbooks, and the article library are included throughout your program. Learn the material. Bring your questions. Work with your coach on applying it to your own dating life.
You leave with something to work on, not just something to think about.
Each call ends with a clear practice focus. Your next session starts with what happened when you used it, so the coaching keeps moving with you.
What men say after working with us
From making every approach a big event to starting conversations naturally
Meeting women during the day used to feel like this huge event in my head. After enough practice and feedback, it started feeling normal. Now I can see someone I want to meet and just go have the conversation.
Lucas F.San Diego, USAHe could approach. Coaching helped him move the conversation forward.
I could approach women before, but my conversations always seemed to stall. My coach showed me a few patterns I kept repeating, and suddenly I understood why some interactions felt flat and others actually went somewhere.
Owen T.Portland, USAThe weekly call kept him doing the work.
I always knew I needed to take more action, but doing it consistently was another story. Knowing I had a call every week and would actually have to talk about what I did kept me from disappearing for weeks at a time.
Andre B.Houston, USAThe coaching grew with his dating life.
I joined because I wanted to get better with women in general. Eventually I met someone I actually wanted to build something serious with, and the coaching shifted with me. I wasn't just taught how to get dates. I got help with what to do when I found the right person.
Henrik S.Helsinki, FinlandThe ability to message my coach between calls has been huge. If a conversation starts going sideways, I don't have to guess for three days. I can send it over, understand what happened, and use the feedback immediately.
Miles D.London, UKHaving access to all five coaches is way more useful than I expected. My main coach knows my whole situation, but if I have a question about online dating, texting, or something specific, there's usually someone on the team who specializes in exactly that.
Darius M.Charlotte, USAI thought I knew what my problem was, but my coach spotted something completely different in the first couple of calls. Once we fixed that, a lot of the other problems started disappearing too.
Grant W.Denver, USAYour own coach.
The full five-coach team behind you.
Your main coach knows your history and goals. The group chat gives you access to the full team when a different specialty is relevant.
Matthew Stevens
Co-Founder & Head Coach
More than half a decade coaching men in person and online.
Specializes in
- Overall dating strategy
- Daygame and nightgame
- Texting and turning interactions into dates
- Coaching from beginner to advanced
Jorge Valencia
Co-Founder & Head Coach
11 years coaching men to success with women
Specializes in
- Advanced daygame and nightgame
- Attracting and dating high-quality women
- Calibration, flirting, and creating attraction
- Escalation, closing, and moving interactions forward
Arjun Patel
Senior Coach
6 years coaching ambitious professionals and entrepreneurs
Specializes in
- Dating for busy professionals and entrepreneurs
- Conversation and natural communication
- Confidence and recurring social patterns
- Turning daytime conversations into dates
Daniel Novak
Senior Coach
8 years helping men improve how they present themselves and connect with women
Specializes in
- Dating app profile optimization
- Professional and AI dating photos
- Personal presentation and positioning
- Building a stronger online presence across dating apps
Kevin Chen
Senior Coach
4 years coaching entrepreneurs and high performers
Specializes in
- Consistency and accountability
- Building a repeatable dating routine
- Building a sustainable dating and social life
- Dating with a demanding career
One simple goal:
Get much better with women.
I spent far too long learning game the hard way.
I'd go out, try something, and come home wondering what I should have done differently. Sometimes things worked. Sometimes they didn't. Figuring out the difference took longer than it should have.
That's the advantage of a good mentor.
He's already worked through the problems you're facing. He can recognize what you're missing, show you what to change, and help you put it into practice.
After more than half a decade coaching men, that's what I've built this program around.
Not another collection of advice to save for later. Personal coaching on the approaches, conversations, texts, and dates happening in your life right now.
You bring the effort. We bring the experience, direction, and feedback.
The goal is better game, stronger confidence, and more success with the women you actually want.
You don't have to keep figuring this out the hard way.
Best,MatthewCo-Founder & Head Coach
Everything you need to work on your game, with a coach beside you.
Weekly coaching, ongoing access, the full course with its playbooks and articles, and optional ways to add more hands-on support.
Weekly 1-on-1 coaching
A 60-minute call every week built around what you're stuck on right now.
Unlimited coach messaging
Send questions, real text conversations, or something that happened on a date or approach. Get a real answer within 24 hours.
Access to all five coaches
Your primary coach knows your situation; the full team is there when a different specialty matters.
The full course, playbooks and articles
The Complete Dating System, its ten playbooks and the whole article library, included for as long as you're in the program.
Bootcamp
Add three days of in-person field coaching in New York, Miami, or Chicago when you need it.
Done For You support
Add AI Photos or Online Dating Concierge if you want parts of your online dating handled for you.
Frequently asked questions
Who is this program for?
Mentorship is for men who want ongoing guidance and feedback. If you mainly want intensive in-person training, start with Bootcamp. If you have one specific problem you want diagnosed, 1-on-1 Calls may be enough. You'll get the most out of Mentorship if you're willing to practice, take feedback, and actually make changes.
How long does the mentorship run?
We agree on the length together based on your goals, current level, and how much support you want.
How often do I meet with my coach?
Every week, on a 60-minute 1-on-1 video call.
Can I message my coach between calls?
Yes. Send it when it happens, and you get a real answer within 24 hours.
Do I get access to all five coaches?
Yes. Your primary coach runs your weekly calls, and the group chat gives you specialist input from the whole team.
How is this different from buying individual coaching calls?
A single call lets you work through a specific situation. Mentorship gives you continuity: the same coach gets to know your history, follows your progress, and helps you build from one week to the next. You also have messaging access between calls, the five-coach group chat, and the training library throughout your program.
I've already bought courses or coaching. Why would this be different?
Knowing the advice and applying it successfully are different things. Mentorship is built around what you are actually doing: your approaches, messages, dates, and the problems that keep coming back. Your coach helps connect the training to your situation and gives you something specific to work on. Each call ends with a clear practice focus and a brief written recap.
Can this help if I already get dates?
Yes. Your goal may be better conversations, more consistency, dating women you're more excited about, or handling relationships better. The coaching starts from your current level rather than making you repeat a beginner course.
Do we work only on approaching women?
No. Mentorship can cover daygame, nightgame, online dating, texting, dates, social circle, and relationships. What you work on depends on your goals and where the coaching will help most.
Can I add bootcamp or Done For You services?
Yes. Add bootcamp, AI Photos, or the Online Dating Concierge any time. We can bundle them together on your call.
What if I'm a beginner, or already experienced?
Both work. Every week is built around where you are now, so a beginner starts with fundamentals and an experienced student goes straight to his sticking points.
Why isn't there a public price?
Program length and level of support are tailored to your situation. We explain the recommendation, what is included, and the full price on your application call before you decide whether to join.
Let's find out what's holding you back.
Tell us where you are with women, what you've tried, and what you want to change.
On your application call, we'll discuss your sticking points, explain how Mentorship would work for you, and agree on the right program length and investment before you enroll.
You apply
Tell us where you're at and what you want to fix.
You have an application call
A coach walks through your sticking points and figures out the right program with you.
You start
If Mentorship is the right fit, we'll set up your coach, weekly calls, messaging, and group-chat access.
Confidential · No obligation · Takes less than two minutes
What your first coaching call covers
You get your coach, your plan, and the first thing to work on.
Your coach goes through where you are
He picks the one sticking point to fix first
He sets what you do before the next call
After the call, a brief written recap
The main issue, the key adjustments, and the next focus.
You’ve spent enough time guessing.
Get a coach in your corner.
Learn to approach with confidence, create attraction, and turn more opportunities into the dating life you actually want, with personal coaching every week and direct support between calls.
Apply for Mentorship ›- 100% Confidential
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- Takes less than 2 minutes
