Find the right help for your dating life.
Get personal coaching, have the online work handled, or learn through our course and Community.
Personal coaching
Someone helps you improve what you do.
Mentorship Program
You want ongoing personal coaching across your dating life.
- A weekly private call, coach messaging, and a group chat with Matthew's team of coaches.
- Is it right for me?
- Mentorship is for men who want ongoing guidance and feedback. You'll get the most out of Mentorship if you're willing to practice, take feedback, and actually make changes.
- Format
- Every week, on a 60-minute 1-on-1 video call. Your primary coach runs your weekly calls, and Matthew's team of coaches is in your group chat.
- Length
- 1, 3, or 6 months, bought outright. If you apply instead, we agree on the length together based on your goals, current level, and how much support you want.
- What happens next
- Buy the length you want, or apply and we explain the recommendation, what is included, and its price from the 1, 3 and 6 month prices before you decide whether to join.
Bootcamp
You want a coach beside you while you approach women.
- Three days of in-person training, in a small group or fully private.
- Is it right for me?
- Every level. There is no skill floor. We specialize in approach anxiety.
- Format
- Group Bootcamp keeps a low 3:1 student-to-coach ratio, so you still get real attention and feedback on your own approaches. New York and Miami.
- Length
- Each day runs two sessions of four hours each, 24 hours of in-person coaching across the three days.
- What happens next
- The price covers the three days of coaching and your written practice plan at the end.
1-on-1 Calls
You want private feedback on your schedule.
- Individual 60-minute calls or call packs, booked when you need them.
- Is it right for me?
- Approaching, conversation, attraction, texting, dating apps, dates, relationships, or a specific situation you do not know how to handle.
- Format
- Every call runs through the same booking link: pick your time, and we match you with the coach whose specialty fits what you're working on.
- Length
- Call packs remain valid for one year from purchase. There is no required weekly schedule.
- What happens next
- Choose a call or package, complete your purchase, and use the booking link to schedule your coaching.
Online Dating Mentorship
You want to improve your apps while continuing to run them yourself.
- Weekly or daily private coaching, coach DMs, and included AI Photos.
- Is it right for me?
- Your coach can start with the photos, profile, and app strategy you're currently using.
- Format
- You run the apps and send your own messages. Your coach works with you on what to change, what to say, and how to get better results.
- Length
- It is billed one week at a time, and you stay as long as it keeps making your dating apps better.
- What happens next
- You pay for your first week online, no call needed, and we email you to book your first 1-on-1 call and meet your coach.
Done For You
Someone creates the assets or operates your apps.
Online Dating Concierge
You want the online dating work handled for you.
- Photos, profiles, app management, messaging, and date coordination.
- Is it right for me?
- Men who want the online side of their dating life handled for them. Most clients are busy professionals who could learn dating apps if they wanted to, but would rather spend those hours on their career, their life, and the dates themselves.
- Format
- Every woman is sent to you for approval before we set up a date. You set your standards up front, and you decide who you actually meet.
- Length
- We agree on the length together on your call, based on your goals and the level of service you want.
- What happens next
- We handle the online work; you show up as yourself on the date.
Profile Makeover
You want your whole profile rebuilt once.
- Twelve photos, rewritten profiles across your apps, opening lines, and a playbook. You run the apps afterward.
- Is it right for me?
- Each app gets its own setup instead of one profile pasted everywhere.
- Format
- You send us photos you already have, and our team builds the set from those.
- Length
- Two to three business days once we have your photos and profile details, for your first look at your new photos and profiles.
- What happens next
- You put the finished profiles live and run them yourself.
AI Photos
You need better photos, not a full profile rebuild.
- Six or twelve finished AI dating photos created from your selfies.
- Is it right for me?
- AI Photos covers the photos. Profile Makeover adds the written profiles, photo order, opening-line toolkit, and playbook.
- Format
- You send us photos you already have, and our team builds the set from those.
- Length
- Your first set arrives 2 to 3 business days after we receive your 10 to 15 reference photos.
- What happens next
- We send you the finished image files. Download them, upload them to your apps, and keep them. They're yours.
Courses & Community
Training and group support.
The Complete Dating System
You want to learn the full skillset through a course.
- The seven-module course, playbooks, and Steal My Lines, with unlimited access.
- Is it right for me?
- This is a self-study course. You get the complete training and practical references to work through yourself.
- Format
- The lessons are written, and each one teaches one thing in a few minutes of reading.
- Length
- Unlimited access.
- What happens next
- All seven modules, the ten playbooks, and Steal My Lines unlock when you purchase.
Community
You want group support, coach input, and the learning library.
- Coach access in the channels, weekly group coaching, member discussions, and course access while subscribed.
- Is it right for me?
- You do not need an experience level or a field report to qualify.
- Format
- Community coaching happens in the member channels and the weekly group call.
- Length
- Monthly is month to month, and yearly is billed once a year.
- What happens next
- After checkout, you receive your membership setup details and Slack invitation by email.
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Coaching
| Feature | Mentorship Program | Bootcamp | 1-on-1 Calls | Online Dating Mentorship |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Coaching | ||||
| Private 1-on-1 video calls | A weekly private call | Not included | Individual 60-minute calls, booked when you need them | Weekly or daily private coaching |
| A program built around your sticking points | Included | Included | Included | Not included |
| Three days of in-person coaching · Maximum three students per coach, or fully private. | add-on | Included | Not included | Not included |
| Video review of your approaches | Not included | add-on | Not included | Not included |
| Your coach | Primary coach, plus Matthew's team of coaches in your group chat | A coach beside you while you approach women | A coach on a 60-minute video call | A private coach |
| Between sessions | ||||
| Unlimited coach messaging, reply under 24 hours | Included | Not included | Not included | Private coach DM, priority replies within 24 hours on High-Society |
| Group chat with Matthew's team of coaches | Included | Not included | Not included | Not included |
| Texting help on your real conversations | Included | Not included | Included | Included |
| Full course library, included | Included | Not included | Not included | Included |
| Full article library, included | Included | Not included | Not included | Not included |
| Done for you | ||||
| A full new set of dating photos, no photo shoot | add-on | Not included | Not included | AI Photos, part of the membership |
| Profile rebuilt end to end: photo order, opening line, bio | add-on | Not included | Not included | Not included |
| Rewritten on every app you use, Raya included | add-on | Not included | Not included | Not included |
| We manage the apps, messaging, and date coordination around your preferences. | add-on | Not included | Not included | Not included |
| A strategy playbook so you can run the profile yourself | add-on | Not included | Not included | Not included |
Done For You
| Feature | Online Dating Concierge | Profile Makeover | AI Photos |
|---|---|---|---|
| A full new set of dating photos, no photo shoot | A complete dating-photo set | Twelve photos | 6 or 12 photos, depending on package. |
| Profile rebuilt end to end: photo order, opening line, bio | Included | Included | Not included |
| Rewritten on every app you use, Raya included | Included | Included | Not included |
| We manage the apps, messaging, and date coordination around your preferences. | Included | Not included | Not included |
| A strategy playbook so you can run the profile yourself | Not included | Included | Not included |
Everything in this table can be added to the Mentorship Program.
Choosing between two options?
Mentorship or 1-on-1 Calls?
Choose Calls for flexible private coaching you book when you need it. Choose Mentorship for a weekly coaching relationship, between-call messaging, and full-team access.
Mentorship or Bootcamp?
Choose Mentorship for ongoing guidance across your dating life. Choose Bootcamp for concentrated practice with a coach physically there during your approaches.
Online Dating Mentorship or Concierge?
With Online Dating Mentorship, you operate the apps and get coaching. With Concierge, the team operates the apps and handles the online conversations and coordination.
AI Photos or Profile Makeover?
Choose AI Photos when the pictures are the work you need done. Choose Profile Makeover when you also want the writing, photo order, and complete profile presentation rebuilt.
Community or the Complete Dating System?
Choose the course for unlimited access to the training without a subscription. Choose Community for group participation, coach input, and course access while you remain a member.
Frequently asked questions
Mentorship Program: How often do I meet with my coach?
You have a private 60-minute coaching session every week. The session focuses on what you've been working on, what happened since the last call, and what to do next.
Bootcamp: What cities do you run?
New York and Miami. Miami has a published Group Bootcamp calendar. Group coaching in New York is available on request. Private dates are arranged with your coach. Private Bootcamps are also available on Group Bootcamp weekends, depending on availability. Please inquire for more details.
1-on-1 Calls: How long do I have to use a package?
Call packs are valid for one year from the purchase date. There is no required weekly schedule. Use your booking link to choose available times within that period.
Online Dating Mentorship: Is there a minimum commitment?
The weekly option is billed weekly with no long-term contract. You can also choose a four-week or twelve-week plan at a reduced weekly rate. Select the plan that fits how long you want to work with your coach.
Online Dating Concierge: Which dating apps do you work with?
We work with mainstream and selective dating apps. Tell us which ones you use, and we'll confirm the apps and scope of management for your program on the application call.
Profile Makeover: How long does the makeover take?
You receive your first look 2-3 business days after we receive your materials. That is your initial review of the work. You can then use your included revision round, with the finished files delivered after any included adjustments.
AI Photos: How long does delivery take?
Your set arrives for review 2-3 business days after we receive your reference photos. The timing starts when we have your photos. You can then review the set and submit your included revision request.
The Complete Dating System: Do I get all seven modules immediately?
Yes. All seven modules, all ten Field Toolkit playbooks, and Steal My Lines unlock with your purchase. The six-week roadmap is a suggested study path. You can open any module from the start.
Community: How often are the live coaching calls?
Once a week. These are live group coaching calls where members can bring approaches, conversations, texts, profiles, dates, and other sticking points. You can learn from the situations other members bring as well as your own questions.
Not sure which program fits?
Tell us where you're stuck and what you want to improve. On your application call, we'll help you identify the right option.
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