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Viable vs. Optimal Game: How to Best Improve and Focus Your Efforts

A lot of men waste years trying to build “optimal” dating game when they don’t even have a “viable” version yet.

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This Is Your Wake-Up Call
You are not “bad with women.” Most of the time, you’re just living like a guy who expects chemistry to show up and do the work for him. It won’t.
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The Flux Flip: Making Your Conversation Expertly Smooth
Smooth conversation is not about having perfect lines. It’s about making other people feel the exchange is easy, natural, and worth continuing.
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The Dating Equation for Men in 2022
Most men think dating in 2022 is about being more impressive. It’s not. It’s about being more clear.
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Find the Most Interesting Woman
Most guys don’t struggle to find women. They struggle to notice the right ones. If every date feels like a first-round interview for a job you don’t want…
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Screen and Qualify
Most men don’t have a dating problem. They have a filtering problem. They spend too much time trying to impress women who were never a fit in the first place.
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Reading Lists
Most men don’t get rejected because they’re unattractive. They get ignored because their dating profile reads like a reading list: a stack of facts with no…
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Highlights
Most men think dating success comes from saying the perfect thing. It usually comes from doing the visible, obvious basics well enough that a woman feels…
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Why Treating Dating Like a Test Keeps You Stuck
Most men don’t fail at dating because they’re “bad with women.” They fail because they make every interaction carry too much weight.
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Picking Up Women and the Game of Asymmetric Returns
Most men think dating is a straight exchange: effort in, interest out. It’s not. Dating works more like asymmetric returns, where one good move can change…
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Online Game Has Always Been a Fantastic Way to Meet New Women
Most guys treat online dating like a lottery ticket, then act surprised when it feels random and demoralizing.
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New Site Design and Business Model: Live in 7 Days
A lot of men think they need a better line, a better photo, or a better app to improve their dating life.
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Mind Your Dating Pool
A lot of men think dating is about improving themselves until women start appearing.
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How to Become Clearer and More Attractive in Dating
Most men struggle in dating because they’re unclear, over-eager, and easy to ignore, all problems you can fix.
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Instantly Connect With Women You Meet via the Use of Pacing
Most guys try to impress too fast, and that’s exactly what makes conversations feel awkward.
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How to Meet Tons of Women on Plenty of Fish
Plenty of Fish can absolutely work, but not if you use it like a desperate slot machine.
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Dating Statistics (2023)
Most dating advice is built on vibes. The numbers tell a harsher truth: dating is less about “being chosen” and more about how often you show up, how clearly…
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Conventional Ideas Beget Conventional Results: How to Go Beyond
Most men don’t have a “dating problem.” They have a sameness problem. If your profile, conversation, and dates look exactly like everyone else’s, your results…

Online Dating

Viable vs. Optimal Game: How to Best Improve and Focus Your Efforts

This Is Your Wake-Up Call

The Flux Flip: Making Your Conversation Expertly Smooth

The Dating Equation for Men in 2022

Find the Most Interesting Woman

Screen and Qualify

Reading Lists

Highlights

Why Treating Dating Like a Test Keeps You Stuck

Picking Up Women and the Game of Asymmetric Returns

Online Game Has Always Been a Fantastic Way to Meet New Women

New Site Design and Business Model: Live in 7 Days

Mind Your Dating Pool

How to Become Clearer and More Attractive in Dating

Instantly Connect With Women You Meet via the Use of Pacing

How to Meet Tons of Women on Plenty of Fish

Dating Statistics (2023)

Conventional Ideas Beget Conventional Results: How to Go Beyond