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What Role Should Women Play in the Mating Game?

The short answer: women should play the role they actually want to play, not the one a frustrated man wishes they would play.

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What Makes a Man 'Strong' to a Woman?
A lot of men think “strong” means bigger muscles, more money, or the ability to never look rattled. That’s part of it at best.
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What Is Masculinity? (Or: Are You Man Enough)
Most men don’t fail at masculinity because they’re “too soft.” They fail because they confuse masculinity with performance.
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What Caused the Trust Collapse Between Women and Men?
The trust problem between women and men is not caused by one bad breakup, one app, or one viral trend.
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What Backward Rationalization Is, and How It Affects You With Women
Backward rationalization is when you make up a neat explanation for a choice you already made.
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How Modern Dating Changed
If dating feels harder than it used to, that’s not just in your head. The rules changed, the marketplace changed, and a lot of the old advice is now basically…
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How to Improve Your Dating Life by Breaking Bad Habits
Most men don’t have a dating problem; they have a tendency problem, and better results start with clearer behavior.
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Warning: Why 80% of Men Are Invisible in Modern Dating
Most men don’t lose in dating because they’re ugly, broke, or “not enough.” They lose because they blend into the background so completely that women never…
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Urbanization, Romantic Anonymity, and the Birth of Game
The more people you’re surrounded by, the easier it is to feel invisible. In cities, that invisibility became a dating problem, and “game” was the messy…
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Turn Offs for Women: What Not to Do
Most dating advice focuses on what women “like,” but the faster way to lose interest is usually simpler: do something that makes her feel drained, pressured…
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Tourism Game, From Getting Her Number to Taking Her Home
Tourist women are often easier to meet than local women, but harder to mess up. The mistake most men make is treating the whole interaction like a race to…
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To Be a Fuckboy or Not to Be a Fuckboy
Being a fuckboy looks like confidence from a distance. Up close, it’s usually just avoidance wearing nice shoes.
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The “Nice Guy” Problem: Negotiating From a Position of Weakness
Being “nice” is not the problem. The problem is when niceness is used as a strategy to avoid risk, especially the risk of being disliked.
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The Tequila Conversation Move: Get Her Isolated With You
Most guys think attraction is about saying the right thing. It’s usually about getting out of the group noise long enough for a real connection to happen.
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The Idea Number of Chances Every Woman Gives a Man (and How to Get More)
The idea number is not one. And it’s not ten. Most women give a man a few chances to feel safe, interesting, and clear, then they quietly move on.
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The Right Way to Use Defiance to Make Progress With Women
Defiance can help you become more attractive. But only if it’s defiance against your fear, not defiance against women, feedback, or reality.
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The Problem With Being Authentic When Picking Up Women
“Just be authentic” is some of the worst advice men get about dating. If your authentic self is anxious, needy, or trying to impress everyone in the room…
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The Pick Up Game: Just Like Any Other Game
Dating feels mysterious only until you realize it has rules, feedback, and repetition. The men who do well are usually not “naturals”.

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What Role Should Women Play in the Mating Game?

What Makes a Man 'Strong' to a Woman?

What Is Masculinity? (Or: Are You Man Enough)

What Caused the Trust Collapse Between Women and Men?

What Backward Rationalization Is, and How It Affects You With Women

How Modern Dating Changed

How to Improve Your Dating Life by Breaking Bad Habits

Warning: Why 80% of Men Are Invisible in Modern Dating

Urbanization, Romantic Anonymity, and the Birth of Game

Turn Offs for Women: What Not to Do

Tourism Game, From Getting Her Number to Taking Her Home

To Be a Fuckboy or Not to Be a Fuckboy

The “Nice Guy” Problem: Negotiating From a Position of Weakness

The Tequila Conversation Move: Get Her Isolated With You

The Idea Number of Chances Every Woman Gives a Man (and How to Get More)

The Right Way to Use Defiance to Make Progress With Women

The Problem With Being Authentic When Picking Up Women

The Pick Up Game: Just Like Any Other Game