EXPOSING Andrew Tate's Pick Up Advice

A lot of pickup advice tells men to hide interest. You wait before replying. You give short answers. You act like you’d rather be anywhere else.

That isn’t confidence. It’s a role.

Picture yourself at a bar. A woman smiles at you twice. You walk over and say, “You look like trouble.” She laughs and asks what you mean. You stare at your drink and say, “You know what you did.”

Now the line sounds weak. You had no real point. You copied a sentence from a video, and she can see it.

Confidence looks different. You walk over, smile, and say, “You smiled at me twice, so I came to say hi. I’m Mark.”

You show clear interest. You don’t beg for her approval. You also don’t punish her for being attractive.

A confident man can say what he wants without acting rude. He can hear “no” without arguing. He can leave when the talk feels flat.

Some dating advice treats every talk like a contest. You’re told to hide your goals, make her prove herself, or keep her unsure about your interest.

That creates bad talks.

If you want to meet her, say so. If you want her number, ask for it. If she says no, accept it and walk away.

You might say, “I’ve enjoyed talking with you. Let’s get coffee this week. What number should I use?”

That sentence gives her a clear choice. She doesn’t need to guess why you walked over. You don’t need to act bored while hoping she chases you.

A guy I coached used to wait for women to ask him questions before he showed interest. He thought this made him look valuable. Most women saw a man who gave short answers and looked at the door.

We changed one thing. He started asking women out after a good talk instead of waiting for a perfect sign. He got more clear answers. Some women said yes. Some said no. Both results helped him stop wasting time.

You don’t need a trick to learn if a woman wants to see you again.

There’s a useful idea inside some hard-edged dating advice: you should have standards. You shouldn’t accept insults, lies, or rude behavior just because you like a woman.

The bad part comes when men turn standards into threats.

A boundary tells her what you’ll do. A threat tries to control her.

If a woman keeps canceling plans, you can say, “I’m not going to keep setting dates that don’t happen. If you want to meet, send me a day that works.”

Then stop texting.

You don’t need to write five angry messages. You don’t need to call her names. You don’t need to post a quote online about women who waste your time.

You made your choice. Your time stays yours.

The same rule works in person. If she mocks you for ten minutes in front of her friends, you can say, “I’m not enjoying this. I’m going to head out.”

Then leave.

A man with standards does not need to prove that he has standards. His feet carry him out the door.

Some men hear advice about being dominant and turn it into pressure. They think a woman’s hesitation means he should push harder.

That is dangerous and weak.

If you kiss her and she pulls back, stop. Ask, “Are you good?” If she says she isn’t sure, give her space. If she says no, the answer is no.

You can still lead without forcing anything. You can suggest a place, pick a time, and make your interest clear. She still gets to choose what happens to her body.

Say, “I’d like to kiss you. Do you want that?”

The question doesn’t kill attraction. It shows that you can handle a real answer.

You also need to watch her actions. A woman who keeps turning away, moves your hand, or goes quiet may not want more, even if she hasn’t said the word “no.” Stop and check in.

Good sex comes from two people who want the same thing. Fear may get someone to stay in a room, but it won’t create trust or desire.

The biggest flaw in celebrity pickup advice is the promise that one hard voice can solve every dating problem. It can’t.

A man may copy the clothes, slang, and attitude from a video. Then he stands in a coffee shop with his shoulders tight, says a strange line, and waits for the woman to react like the women in the clip.

Real skill comes from small actions you can repeat.

Talk to women in places where conversation makes sense. Start with what you can see. Ask a simple question. Share something about yourself. Notice whether she gives you more than short replies.

For example, at a bookstore, you might say, “I’m trying to pick a book for a long flight. Have you read either of these?”

If she gives a full answer and asks what you like, keep talking. If she looks back at her phone and gives one-word replies, smile and say, “Have a good one.”

You don’t need to win every talk. You need to stay calm, speak plainly, and learn what her answer means.

The man who can do that has more dating skill than the man who can repeat a tough line from a screen.