You don't need loud clothes to look sexy. You need clothes that fit your body, match the place, and make it easy for a woman to picture standing next to you.
Dark Jeans, A White Shirt, And Clean Boots
This outfit works for a bar, a casual dinner, or drinks with friends.
Wear dark blue or black jeans with no rips. The jeans should sit close to your legs without squeezing your thighs. The hem should touch the top of your boots. If the jeans bunch up around your shoes, they need to be shorter.
Add a white button-up shirt. Roll the sleeves once or twice so your forearms show. Leave the top one or two buttons open. Do not wear a shirt so tight that the buttons pull across your chest. Do not wear one so loose that the cloth hangs from your shoulders.
Finish with brown or black leather boots. Wipe them clean before you leave. A dirty pair of shoes can ruin a good outfit.
One of our students wore this to a bar and used to hide his hands in his pockets. After he rolled his sleeves, his arms showed when he held his drink. He looked more at ease because he stopped tugging at his cuffs.
A Fitted T-Shirt, Chinos, And Low Sneakers
You can look sexy in a simple outfit when every piece fits well.
Choose a plain T-shirt in black, white, gray, navy, or olive. The sleeve should end around the middle of your upper arm. The bottom should cover your belt, but it should not hang past your hips. The shoulder seam should sit where your shoulder ends.
Wear slim chinos in tan, navy, gray, or dark green. They should give you room to sit and walk. Avoid pants that cling to your calves. You want a clean line from your waist to your shoes.
Add low sneakers in white, gray, or black. Keep the design simple. Wipe the rubber edge before you go out. Clean sneakers show that you pay attention without looking like you spent an hour getting dressed.
This outfit works well for coffee, a daytime date, or a casual place where a dress shirt would look stiff. If the room is cold, add a denim jacket or a short wool jacket. Keep the jacket close to your body, not long and loose.
A Knit Polo, Trousers, And Loafers
A knit polo shows more shape than a T-shirt while staying relaxed.
Pick a polo with a firm collar and a close fit around your chest and arms. It should not press against your stomach. Wear it in cream, black, brown, dark green, or navy.
Pair it with straight or slim trousers. The waist should sit at your natural waist, not low on your hips. The pants should fall cleanly to your shoes. A small break at the ankle is fine. A large pile of cloth is not.
Loafers finish the outfit. Brown loafers work with cream, tan, and navy. Black loafers work with gray, black, and dark green. Wear low socks that do not show, or wear socks that match the pants.
This outfit fits a nice restaurant or a hotel bar. It tells her you made an effort, but you still look like yourself. Keep your watch simple. Leave the large logo belt and bright jewelry at home.
A Dark Sweater, Black Jeans, And Leather Shoes
This is a strong choice when you want to look calm and sharp without wearing a shirt with a collar.
Wear a thin sweater in black, charcoal, navy, or dark brown. The shoulder seam should land on your shoulder bone. The sleeves should stop at your wrist. If the sweater bunches under your arms or hangs below your seat, choose a smaller size or a shorter cut.
Add black or very dark jeans. Keep them plain. No rips, bright stitching, or large marks on the pockets.
Wear leather shoes or clean boots. The shoes should have a narrow shape, but they should not look like dress shoes from a wedding. A simple black derby or a slim black boot works well.
A dark outfit can make your body look longer and cleaner. It also puts more focus on your face. Make sure the sweater has no lint, hair, or food marks. Run a lint roller over the front before you leave.
A Linen Shirt, Tailored Shorts, And Canvas Sneakers
Warm weather does not mean you have to wear gym clothes.
Choose a linen or cotton shirt in white, light blue, sand, or pale green. The shirt can have a relaxed fit, but the shoulder seam should still sit near your shoulder. Leave the bottom untucked if the shirt ends near the top of your hips. Tuck it in if it hangs much lower.
Wear tailored shorts that end a few inches above your knee. Avoid cargo pockets, long basketball shorts, and large logos. The shorts should sit flat at your waist and give you room to walk.
Add clean canvas sneakers or leather sandals. Keep the rest of the outfit simple. A watch and dark sunglasses are enough.
This outfit works for a patio, a walk through a busy area, or a casual outdoor date. Do not wear heavy boots with shorts. Do not wear a shirt that shows a sweaty ring under the arms. Bring a spare shirt if you will be outside for hours.
A Simple Suit With A T-Shirt
A suit can look sexy when you make it less stiff.
Wear a navy, charcoal, or brown suit with a plain white, black, or gray T-shirt. The jacket should sit close around your shoulders. The sleeves should end at your wrist bone. The pants should skim your legs and stop just above your shoes.
Wear clean white sneakers for a relaxed look. Choose leather loafers if the place is more formal. Your belt should match your shoes.
Do not wear a shiny suit with a thin party shirt. Do not wear a tie unless the place calls for one. The goal is to look sharp while keeping your body relaxed.
This outfit works for a dinner where you want to stand out without wearing a full formal look. Keep your jacket on when you first arrive. When you sit, unbutton it. Small details like that make the clothes look natural on you.
Fit Beats Price Every Time
A cheap shirt that fits your shoulders will look better than an expensive shirt that hangs off your body. Take your clothes to a tailor if the sleeves are too long or the pants bunch at your shoes.
Check the mirror from the front and side. Look at your shoulders, waist, sleeves, and shoes. Remove anything stained, stretched, or covered with large writing.
Sexy clothes give her a clear picture of you. Clean lines, good fit, and the right level of effort do more than a loud brand ever will.
Written by Jorge Valencia
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