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Want Dates? Then Approach Women

If you want more dates, you need to do the thing most men quietly avoid: start conversations with women in real life.

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Verbal vs. Nonverbal Approaches to Meeting Women
Most guys think the key to meeting women is what they say first. In reality, what she reads before you speak often matters more than the opening line…
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Troubleshooting Your Opening
Most bad approaches don’t fail because the opener was “wrong.” They fail because the man delivering it was already acting like the outcome mattered too much.
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An Unconventional Tinder Opener
Most Tinder openers fail for the same reason most first messages fail in real life: they try too hard to be “good” instead of being useful.
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Online Dating vs. Meeting Women in Person: Which Approach Fits You Best?
Online dating and meeting women in person each reward different strengths, so the best choice depends on your personality and lifestyle.
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The Real Reason Why Men Don't Approach Beautiful Women
Most men don’t avoid beautiful women because they’re “not confident enough.” They avoid them because, deep down, they assume the interaction is already lost…
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The Most Embarrassing Cold Approach That Changed My Life
The cold approach that changed my dating life wasn’t smooth, confident, or impressive.
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The Man Who Refused to Learn to Talk to Women
He wasn’t shy, awkward, or ugly. He was just committed to one dangerous belief: if a woman was interested, she should make it obvious.
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The Indirect Approach: No Interest, Push-Pull, or Indirect Classic?
If you’ve ever tried to “play it cool” with a woman you liked, you already know the problem: there’s a thin line between looking relaxed and looking confused.
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The Group Approach Spill-Over Effect
Most men think they need to “work up the courage” to approach a woman one-on-one.
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The Fundamentals of a Great Approach: Interaction Outline Pt. 1
Most men think a great approach starts with the perfect opener. It doesn’t. It starts much earlier, with how calm, clear, and socially competent you are before…
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The Death of Approach Anxiety: A 10-Year Reflection
What if the problem was never that you were “bad at approaching,” but that you were approaching the wrong way?
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The Best 10 Places to Meet Women (Not Dating Apps!)
If your dating strategy is “open app, swipe, repeat,” you’re competing in the worst possible environment: low effort, high burnout, and endless options that…
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The 3-Second Rule: Why Hesitation Kills Attraction
The moment you wait too long to act, your brain starts inventing reasons to stay quiet.
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The 3 Best Ways to Start Conversations With Women
Most men think starting a conversation is about saying the “perfect” line. It isn’t.
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The 10 Laws of Cold Approaching Women
Most men think the hardest part of approaching a woman is finding the “right words.” It isn’t.
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How to Choose the Right Woman on a Night Out (& Get Her Into You)
Most men don’t fail on a night out because they can’t talk to women. They fail because they waste time chasing the wrong ones, the girl who’s too drunk, too…
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Getting Numbers
The hardest part of getting a woman’s number is not asking for it. It’s earning a “yes” that feels natural enough that she doesn’t immediately brace for what…

Approach

Want Dates? Then Approach Women

Verbal vs. Nonverbal Approaches to Meeting Women

Troubleshooting Your Opening

An Unconventional Tinder Opener

Online Dating vs. Meeting Women in Person: Which Approach Fits You Best?

The Real Reason Why Men Don't Approach Beautiful Women

The Most Embarrassing Cold Approach That Changed My Life

The Man Who Refused to Learn to Talk to Women

The Indirect Approach: No Interest, Push-Pull, or Indirect Classic?

The Group Approach Spill-Over Effect

The Fundamentals of a Great Approach: Interaction Outline Pt. 1

The Death of Approach Anxiety: A 10-Year Reflection

The Best 10 Places to Meet Women (Not Dating Apps!)

The 3-Second Rule: Why Hesitation Kills Attraction

The 3 Best Ways to Start Conversations With Women

The 10 Laws of Cold Approaching Women

How to Choose the Right Woman on a Night Out (& Get Her Into You)

Getting Numbers