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She Will Beg You to Take Her Home (the Inception Technique)

Most men think “taking her home” is about pressure, persuasion, or saying the right smooth line. It’s not.

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5 Tools for Obliterating Suppression and Anxiety
The biggest mistake men make with approach anxiety is trying to “calm down” before they act.
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The 'Pay Your Dues' Approach to Incredible Social Skills
The fastest way to get better with people is not to “be more confident.” It’s to spend enough time around enough people that awkwardness stops feeling like a…
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Talk to Women With Confidence Using This Simple Tool
The biggest reason most men feel awkward talking to women is not because they “don’t know what to say.” It’s because they’re trying to perform instead of…
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Terrified to Approach?
The fear you feel before approaching someone attractive is not proof that you’re weak. It’s proof that you care.
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When Women You Approach Get Distracted
You finally get the courage to approach, say something decent, and then. Mid-conversation.
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Tease Opener: "The Optimistic Complaint"
The best openers usually don’t try too hard to impress. They create a tiny bit of friction, then make the other person smile because you’re clearly not taking…
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Warming Up Quick When Approached
The worst thing about being approached isn’t usually the approach itself. It’s the awkward 10 seconds that follow when your brain is still catching up.
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Talking to Women Early on: Initial Light Approaches
Most guys think the hardest part is “what to say.” It’s not. The real challenge is learning how to start early, lightly, and without making the interaction…
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The 'Too Distracted' Opener
The best openers usually aren’t the slickest ones. In fact, sometimes the most effective approach is the one that sounds like you’re barely trying, because…
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Relaxed Openers in Bars With a Friend
The best bar openers usually sound like you weren’t “opening” at all. The moment you stop trying to impress and start trying to create an easy conversation…
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Pre-Approach Screening
Most guys think the hard part of approach is walking over and saying hello. It isn’t.
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Innocuous Openers
The best opening line is usually not the cleverest one. In fact, the more normal it sounds, the more likely it is to actually work.
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How to Meet Women on the Subway
The subway is one of the worst places to force a pickup, and one of the best places to have a natural, low-pressure conversation.
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How to Approach Lots of Women (Without Spam Approaching)
Most men think the problem is that they don’t approach enough. Usually, the real problem is that they approach in the dumbest, least sustainable way possible.
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How to Approach Women Who Are Eating Alone
Most men overthink the “girl eating alone” situation and either go blank or turn into a walking interruption.
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High Authority Direct Openers
Most men don’t fail because they’re unattractive. They fail because they open in a way that makes them look unsure of themselves.
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Going Out Alone to Meet Women
Going out alone can feel like a punishment if you’re used to having a friend. But if you do it right, it can actually make you more approachable, more…

Approach

She Will Beg You to Take Her Home (the Inception Technique)

5 Tools for Obliterating Suppression and Anxiety

The 'Pay Your Dues' Approach to Incredible Social Skills

Talk to Women With Confidence Using This Simple Tool

Terrified to Approach?

When Women You Approach Get Distracted

Tease Opener: "The Optimistic Complaint"

Warming Up Quick When Approached

Talking to Women Early on: Initial Light Approaches

The 'Too Distracted' Opener

Relaxed Openers in Bars With a Friend

Pre-Approach Screening

Innocuous Openers

How to Meet Women on the Subway

How to Approach Lots of Women (Without Spam Approaching)

How to Approach Women Who Are Eating Alone

High Authority Direct Openers

Going Out Alone to Meet Women