Rewind takes back your last swipe. Tap the yellow arrow icon on the main screen and the person you just swiped on comes back, so you can make a different choice. It works on your most recent Like, Nope or Super Like, and only Tinder subscribers can use it. Tinder notes that in certain markets Rewinds may also be offered on a test basis.
What one tap on the yellow arrow does
A swipe happens fast, and sometimes your thumb is quicker than your judgment. Rewind is the undo button for that moment.
You tap the arrow, the card you just swiped returns to the front, and you decide again. It corrects the swipe you just made. It is not a history of everything you have done in the app.
Timing matters here. Rewind only helps if you catch the slip before you swipe again, because the next swipe becomes your last one. So when you feel that small jolt of regret, stop and tap the arrow before your thumb moves on to the next card.
The three swipes it can take back
Most men think of Rewind as a way to rescue a woman they passed on by accident, and that is the common use. But it covers all three kinds of swipe.
The first is a Nope you did not mean. You flicked left out of habit, then realized her second photo was the one that caught your eye. Rewind brings her back.
The second is a Like you did not mean, and it matters more than men expect. Liking a coworker, a friend's sister or an ex by mistake is the kind of slip you want to undo before it can turn into a match.
The third is a Super Like you did not mean. One sent to the wrong woman starts things on an odd footing, and Rewind can take that swipe back as well.
What it cannot do
Rewind reaches back exactly one swipe. If you passed on someone three cards ago, she is out of reach of the arrow, and tapping it again will not bring her back.
It is also a swipe tool rather than a conversation tool. It does nothing about a match you have already made or a message you have already sent. Rewind only ever deals with the card you just swiped.
Who can use it
Rewind is a subscriber feature, and free accounts do not get it. Tinder does say it may be available on a test basis in certain markets, so some men may see the arrow work without paying.
If you do not have it, the cure for an accidental swipe is simply slowing down. That is worth doing anyway.
Is it a reason to subscribe
On its own, rarely.
a dating coach's view of paid features on dating apps is practical. Most of them multiply the results you already get, and a multiplier on zero is still zero. Rewind is a small multiplier. It saves the occasional woman you would otherwise have lost to a careless thumb.
coach is just as blunt that refusing to pay for anything on principle holds men back. If your time is valuable and a feature saves you some of it, paying is reasonable. The only real question is whether this particular feature saves you enough.
That is worth something to a man who already gets likes back and swipes carefully. It is worth very little to a man whose real problem is that not enough women like him in the first place. If you are weighing a subscription, judge it on its bigger features and treat Rewind as a convenience that comes along with them.
Swipe so you rarely need it
A man who keeps reaching for Rewind is usually swiping too fast.
The apps reward a standard. Coaching material on how the apps sort people makes one point clearly. Liking the women you genuinely want, rather than everyone, leads to better results over time. That only works if you actually look at each card before you decide.
It also helps to swipe when you are fresh. Ten careful minutes after dinner produce fewer slips than half an hour of bored flicking in bed at midnight, when every card starts to look the same.
So give each woman a real look. Check more than her first photo, since a flat first shot sometimes hides a great second one. Read her words if she wrote any. Then swipe once, on purpose. You will make fewer slips, you will like the women you actually want, and the yellow arrow will mostly sit there unused.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.