Yes, with Rewind. Tinder says Rewind lets paid subscribers take back their last Like or Nope, and it works on all three swipe types, including a Super Like. It is the yellow arrow on the main screen. The catch is that Rewind reaches back only one swipe and needs a paid subscription, so a free account has no way to remove a Super Like once it is sent.
How to do it
Tap the yellow arrow on the main screen straight after the Super Like. The card comes back, and you can swipe again.
It has to be the very next thing you do. Rewind is for the last swipe only. If you have already moved on to another card, the Super Like you want to remove is no longer the last one, and the arrow cannot reach it.
What she sees
A Super Like sends a notification to the woman you sent it to. Tinder says a Super Like taken back with Rewind can explain a notification the recipient cannot find. So she may be told that a man Super Liked her, and then fail to find you in the app.
That is the downside. Rewinding is not invisible. If she has notifications on, she may see the alert and wonder where you went. It is a small oddity and it will not mean much to her, but you should not assume that taking it back erases it.
If you are not a subscriber
Without a subscription, nothing takes the Super Like back. It is sent.
Do not spiral over it. The worst case is that a woman you found attractive learns that you liked her, which was your intention a second earlier. If she likes you back, you match and the conversation begins on better terms than most. If she does not, nothing else happens.
The only thing worth doing is writing a good first message if she does match. A mistaken Super Like followed by a specific, relaxed opener is a fine start.
Is Rewind worth paying for
If your only reason is to undo accidental Super Likes, no. You can avoid the mistake for free, by slowing down.
Rewind earns its place when you tend to pass on women you meant to like, since it works on a Nope as well. But the cheaper fix is to swipe with a standard. A man who decides on each card for two seconds rather than half a second rarely needs an undo.
Super Likes are a signal, so use them on purpose
A Super Like tells her you did not just tap right on everyone. That is its whole value, and it is also its risk. It removes the question of whether you are interested, and you cannot be casually curious afterward.
So it works best in a narrow set of cases. You picked her for a specific reason, such as something she wrote or a place in her photos. Or she is a woman who has a great many options, and being the one deliberate choice stands out. Use it on the woman you would most regret losing, and do not use it on every second card.
A Super Like followed by "hey" reads as a mismatch. The signal says she is special, and the message says you have nothing to say about her. Pair it with a first line that names the thing you noticed.
Mistakes that lead to regret
Swiping while distracted is the main one. A Super Like sent by accident while you scroll on a train or half-watch a game is a mistake you made by rushing. Stop, look at the card, and decide properly.
The second is sending a Super Like out of impatience, because nothing else is working. If your regular likes are not producing matches, the cause is your photos or your page, and one more signal will not fix it.
The third is using all of them in one sitting. Spread them out, and keep them for women you are sure about.
What to do next
If you have just sent one you did not mean to, decide whether you would be glad if she matched with you. If yes, leave it and plan a good opener. If no and you have Rewind, tap the arrow now.
Then change one habit: slow your swipes. The best protection against regret is a standard you apply the same way on every card.
The short answer
You can take back a Super Like, but only with a paid Rewind and only straight away. If you cannot, let it stand, write a good first line, and send the next one on purpose.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.