A yellow heart on Bumble is the badge that shows up when a woman has SuperSwiped you. She used a SuperSwipe, one of Bumble's paid features, to say she is especially interested before the two of you have matched. If you like her too, swipe right, and because Bumble matches two people who like each other, the match is made.
What the badge is telling you
Bumble's guide to its icons lists the yellow heart as the badge that appears when someone has SuperSwiped you. Its page on paid features explains what a SuperSwipe is for. It lets someone know you are especially interested in them before you match, and the person on the other end sees a clear sign that you went beyond a regular swipe.
So the heart means she did more than tap right. She looked at your photos, decided an ordinary like was not enough, and used a SuperSwipe on you. SuperSwipes come with Bumble's paid plans or are bought in packs, so she spent something to send it.
If you pay for Premium, there is a second place these show up. Bumble's page on its Liked You tab says people who have sent you a SuperSwipe appear at the top of that page, so the women who went out of their way for you are the first ones you see.
Three yellow icons that are easy to mix up
The yellow heart is the badge you see on a card when that woman has SuperSwiped you. The yellow star is the button you tap to send a SuperSwipe of your own. Bumble's icon guide also lists a yellow and black heart, which it calls a confirmed SuperSwipe.
The quick way to keep them straight: a heart on her card came from her side, and the star is yours to use.
What to do when you see it while swiping
Treat the heart as a reason to take a proper look, not a reason to swipe right on reflex.
Go through her photos and read what she wrote, the same as you would for any woman. If you would have liked her without the badge, swipe right. If you would not, the badge does not change that. A match you do not want only adds a chat you will never enjoy.
Coaches who have tested paid likes on several apps describe them the same way. The feature puts one person's interest in front of the other. It tells you she liked what she saw. It does not tell you whether the two of you will get on, and only a conversation settles that.
Your first message after a SuperSwipe
Once you match, either of you can send the opening message, and she has already made the first gesture. You do not need to work to get her attention. You need a first message she can answer easily.
"Thanks for the SuperSwipe" is the obvious opener, and it gives her nothing to reply to. Pick one thing from her photos or her answers and ask about it instead. A question about the hiking trail in her second photo does more than any mention of the badge.
Keep the tone relaxed. Her SuperSwipe puts you in a good position, and the fastest way to waste it is to sound surprised or grateful that she picked you. Talk to her like a woman who already likes the look of you, because that is exactly who she is.
Sending a SuperSwipe yourself
You send one by tapping the yellow star on a woman's card. Bumble's page on the People tab notes that a SuperSwipe cannot be undone, so check you have the right woman before you tap. On her side, she sees the same clear sign that you went past a regular swipe.
That visibility cuts both ways. The coaching material on super likes is honest about the trade. They raise the odds that she at least looks at you, but you have shown your interest before she has seen anything else, which gives away a little of the upper hand.
A SuperSwipe works for a man whose photos and words can carry the extra attention. On a weak set of photos, it mostly makes sure more women notice the weak set. Save them for women you would genuinely be excited to meet, and send them when you have time to reply quickly if she matches.
A warm start, not a date
A yellow heart means she was interested enough to spend a SuperSwipe on you. It does not mean she has agreed to anything.
The badge can make a man lazy, because he assumes the hard part is done. It can also make him needy, because he is excited and it shows. Either one loses her within a few messages.
Answer her with something specific, keep the chat light, and suggest meeting while she is still keen. If her photos show her at a food market, ask what she always buys there. A few easy replies later, suggest going to one together this weekend.
The heart got you the match. What you send next decides whether it turns into a date.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.