Bumble's guide to its icons says a yellow and black star means the member is using Spotlights, the paid feature that puts someone in front of more people for a set period. A plain yellow star is something else. It is the button you tap to send a SuperSwipe, and mixing the two up can cost you a SuperSwipe you meant to keep.

Two stars, two jobs

Bumble's icon guide lists both stars. The yellow and black star, it says, indicates the user is using Spotlights. The plain yellow star is the button you click to send a SuperSwipe.

So one star describes something the other person paid for. The other is a control you press yourself. When the star is a badge on a woman's card, it is telling you about her. When the star is a button you can tap, it is waiting for you.

Tap the plain star with care

The plain yellow star sends a SuperSwipe, which tells a woman you are especially interested before you match. Bumble's page on paid features says she sees a clear sign that you went beyond a regular swipe. Its page on the People tab adds that a SuperSwipe cannot be undone.

That makes the plain star the one to be careful with. SuperSwipes come in limited numbers with the paid plans or in packs, so a tap on the wrong woman spends one you cannot take back. If you swipe fast with your thumb near the star, slow down.

If it happens anyway, it is not a disaster. Bumble's People tab page says that if you end up matching after a SuperSwipe you did not mean, you can unmatch. You can also let the connection expire by not sending a message.

What a Spotlight does

Bumble's page on paid features describes a Spotlight as a boost that moves you to the front of the line, so more people see you for a set period. While it is active, you are shown to more potential matches in your area.

Spotlights come with Bumble's paid plans in a limited number, or you can buy them on their own as a consumable. Bumble's page on standing out says you can start one anytime from the Spotlight option on the main menu, under your profile photo.

Bumble's pages do not describe its visibility the same way

The icon guide ties the yellow and black star to Spotlights. Bumble's help pages are not consistent about how visible a Spotlight is to other members, though. Treat the star as the icon guide's explanation, and do not build a plan around who can or cannot see it.

What you can rely on is the part the pages agree on. A Spotlight is for being seen by more people for a while.

Seeing the star while swiping

If a woman's card carries the yellow and black star, read it as a sign she paid to be seen by more people. She is probably active and paying attention to new matches.

That is a reason to decide on her the normal way and to reply fast if you match. It is not a reason to lower your standards, and it is not a sign she is easy to get. Look past the first photo, read what she wrote, and swipe right only if you would want to take her out.

If you do match, send a specific first message the same day, about something from her photos or her answers. If she answered a prompt about her perfect Sunday with "a long walk and a bakery", ask which bakery wins. A question she can answer in one line, about something she chose to share, will do more than any line about the star.

Using a Spotlight yourself

A Spotlight gets you more views. What those women think when they see you is still up to your photos.

Before you start one, check your lead photo. It should be clear, recent, and show your face. The rest of your photos should show an ordinary week of your life. The coaching material on paid boosts keeps landing on one point: a boost helps a man whose photos already get a decent response, and it only spreads a weak set of photos further.

Look at your written part too. It should say what you are looking for and give her one easy thing to ask about. A Spotlight sends more women to your page all at once, and you want each of them to find a reason to stay.

Start it when you can stay on the app. Swipe on the women you like while it runs and answer new matches within the hour. Then compare that week against a week without one. If the extra views brought matches you actually wanted to talk to, the Spotlight earned its place. If they did not, change your photos before you buy another.