Test Hinge, Bumble and Tinder first, and keep the one where women answer you. No dating app publishes how many women are on it in Florida, so any ranking by state is a guess. a dating coach says Hinge tends to do better than Tinder in US cities, and that is a good starting point. Where you live in the state changes the plan more than the app does.

The three to test first

All three are open to every adult age, and each has a different feel.

  • Hinge says it is designed to be deleted. A woman's page shows prompt answers and details, and a match starts with a like on one picture or prompt.
  • Bumble says it wants members to find meaningful and authentic relationships. After a match, each person gets one opening message within a time limit.
  • Tinder is a place to meet people. You swipe, and its recommendations lean on age, distance, interests and your likes and nopes.

coach says Tinder has a hookup reputation, and that Hinge and Bumble have more of a relationship feel. Those are his observations, not a count of who is on which app near you.

Florida is not one market

A big Florida city and a small Florida town behave like different places. In a big city the pool is deep, she has several conversations running at once, and the fastest route to a real plan beats the cleverest opener. In a small town the pool refreshes slowly and you see the same faces, so your photos have to be right the first time.

Decide which of those you live in, and read the matching plan before you worry about which app to download. Our articles on dating apps in a big city and in a small town cover both.

Test two apps, not six

coach recommends testing several apps because each has its own mix of people, so a man can do badly on one and well on another. Running six at once leaves you unable to write properly to anyone.

Choose two, use the same photos and the same few lines, and run them for two or three weeks. Write down how many women you liked, how many answered, and how many plans came out of it. Keep the one that answers.

Set the distance honestly

Florida is long. A woman who is an hour away in traffic is not a coffee after work. Keep your distance setting tight enough that every woman you like is someone you would actually meet on a Thursday evening.

If you split your time between two parts of the state, run the app in the place where you will be that week. A plan for a city you left yesterday goes nowhere.

Photos decide more than the app does

My first fix for a man who gets no response is his photos, and he says it is as much about how you look in a picture as how you look in person. Good light, clothes that fit and a sharp angle go a long way.

Lead with a clear, recent photo of your face, alone, in daylight. Follow it with two or three that show how you spend a week: friends, a sport, a place you really go. Florida makes outdoor light easy to find, so use it.

Do not like everyone

It is tempting to like every woman who appears, just to see who likes you back. coach says that backfires. Apps judge you partly on how selective you are, and a man who likes everybody can be shown less often.

Like the women you would honestly be glad to take for a drink. Fewer likes, aimed well, give you a better feed and conversations you want to have.

Turn matches into dates quickly

A match is not a date. My advice is to write one specific line about something on her page, ask a question she can answer in a sentence, and move to a plan within a handful of messages.

Suggest a place near her that is easy to reach and easy to leave, on a day two to four days away. A woman who has agreed to a drink in a place she knows is far more likely to show up than one who has agreed to a long evening across the county.