There is no honest single answer, because no app publishes how many women are on it in Australia or in your city. What we can say is that Hinge, Bumble and Tinder each name Australia on their own pages, so those are the three to test first. Give two of them the same photos and the same lines for two weeks, and keep the one that gets women to answer and agree to a plan.
The three that name Australia
Hinge keeps a public list of the countries where it is available, and Australia is on that list. The list changes over time, so check Hinge's availability page before you rely on it.
Bumble offers its distance filter only in certain countries, and Australia is among them. That is a fair sign the app runs there, though it is not a count of members.
Tinder names Australia too. Its help pages say people creating an account in Australia are asked to take a Face Check. Tinder also tested ID Verification in Australia and New Zealand before offering it elsewhere.
None of this tells you which one is busiest in Sydney or in a regional town. It tells you where to start.
Why a country list is not a city map
An app can operate in Australia and still be thin where you live. A man in a big city may have a lot of profiles to sort through. A man in a smaller place may see the same faces in a week.
So test where you are. Download the app, finish your photos and see how many profiles appear within the distance you would actually travel. If the stack runs dry in a day or two, that app is not worth your effort where you live. You lose nothing finding that out.
What a dating coach says about choosing by region
a dating coach's point is that app choice depends on where you are. In parts of Europe, he says, Tinder is almost the only app people use and works well. In the United States, he says there are many fake profiles on Tinder and Hinge tends to be better, especially in major cities.
He does not give an Australian answer, and we will not make one up. What carries over is the method. Treat the app as part of your results, not a fixed fact. He also says you do not have to be loyal to one app. If one is good but small, max it out and then move to another.
Pick by the feel, then by results
The three apps feel different, and you should know which one fits the way you want to meet women.
Hinge says it is designed to be deleted. A woman's page shows prompt answers and details, and a match starts with a like on a picture or a prompt. Bumble says it wants members to find meaningful and authentic relationships. It gives both people one opening message within a time limit. Tinder describes itself as a place to meet people, and a dating coach says it has a hookup reputation.
If you want something steady, start with Hinge or Bumble. If you are open to casual, add Tinder. Then let your own numbers decide.
Run it as a two-week test
a dating coach's standing advice is to test, tweak and test again. Treat your page like a small piece of marketing and watch what happens.
Give each app two weeks with the same photos and the same lines. Count conversations started, conversations that reached a plan, and dates. Change your lead photo and count again. The app that produces more dates for the same effort is your best app in Australia, whatever the lists say.
He also warns against liking everyone. An app reads how selective you are, and a man who likes every face looks less attractive to the sorting and gets shown fewer of the women he wants. Be choosy about whom you like.
Do not date across a continent
Australia is big. A match who lives a long way from you is a pen pal, not a date.
a dating coach's first rule for online dates is to do everything you can to put the date near your place, and he says it matters more than the venue. So when a woman says where she lives, check the real travel time against yours before you build a conversation on it. Suggest a drink near you within a handful of messages, on a day two to four days away. If she is too far, say so kindly and move on.
Where to start tonight
Download Hinge or Bumble, whichever you like the look of. Add a clear photo of your face in daylight and a few lines in your own voice. Then ask a woman out within a handful of messages. Do that for two weeks, add Tinder if you want a wider pool, and keep whichever app gives you dates.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.