Neither, exactly. A Hinge profile is not a public page that anyone can look up, and it is not hidden from everyone either. Other members see it through the Discover feed, Standouts and Likes You, based on mutual preferences. Hinge says the people you see fit your preferences and you fit theirs.
Who can actually see it
Think of it as a room with a door that only opens for certain people. A woman sees your page when you fit what she asked for and she fits what you asked for. That is the whole mechanism Hinge describes.
It also says it does not offer a search option to look up specific people. A coworker, a neighbor or a woman you met last week cannot type your name into Hinge and pull up your page. If you fit their preferences, though, you can still turn up in their feed, which is why a stranger from your own city may see you without ever looking for you.
This works in both directions. A woman who set a narrow age range or distance will not be shown your page if you fall outside it, and nothing you write can change that. Likewise, the women you see are the ones who fit what you asked for. Your reach is shaped by both sets of filters, not by anything public.
So the practical answer is that your page is visible to members who match the filters on both sides. It is not visible to people outside the app, and it is not searchable inside it.
What stays private
Your Dating Preferences are private. They only act as filters and are not visible to anyone else. A woman cannot see that you set a maximum distance or an age range, and she cannot tell what you are filtering out.
Your Last Active status is more limited than it sounds. It is only visible to members who view your profile in Discover, Standouts or Likes You. Your matches do not see it, and you can turn it off in settings.
You can also decide whether details such as gender appear on your page, using the Visible on Profile checkbox. What you leave unticked stays off the page.
What is not private
Everything you actually put on the page is there for any member who is shown it. Your pictures and your prompt answers are written for strangers. Treat each one as something a stranger can read or describe to a friend.
This is worth saying plainly because men sometimes write as if the page were a private diary. If your answer to a prompt would embarrass you in front of a coworker, it does not belong there. A good rule is to write the page so you would be fine if a woman you know read it.
The controls you do have
There are two ways to step back. You can pause your account, so you are not shown to new people, and nothing is closed. You can also close the account, after which the profile is no longer visible to other members.
Those are the two big switches. Pausing is the right one when you want a break and plan to come back. Closing is the one for when you are done.
What neither switch does is let you pick one particular person to hide from. If a man is trying to avoid a woman he knows, the real tools are the ones Hinge gives for specific people, not the visibility settings. Read the app's own help page on that before you rely on a guess.
What this means for how you write the page
A page that is shown to people who fit your filters is a page written for strangers who may like you. a dating coach's point about profiles is that you are judged first on photos and then on what you say, and that a boring page gets the average result. Because strangers see it without knowing you, nothing on it can rely on a friend explaining the joke.
So give the page what a stranger needs. Show your face clearly in the first picture. Answer prompts with something specific you did, not an adjective. Skip anything that would make a woman wonder what you are hiding.
If you worry about privacy, the sensible answer is not to hide the page. It is to put nothing on it that you would mind a stranger reading, then use Last Active, Visible on Profile and Pause for the rest.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.