A Group Bootcamp is $3,000 for three days. A Private Bootcamp is $1,750 for one day, $3,000 for two days or $4,000 for three days, and longer programs are quoted on request. Both are bought at checkout with the price shown first and no sales call, and both put you in the field approaching women, daygame by day and nightgame at night. What you pay extra for in Private is not more hours. It is your coach's attention, all of it, for the whole booking.

What to know first

  • Group: three consecutive days, 24 hours of in-field coaching, no more than three students per coach, $3,000.
  • Private: one coach and one student, for one day ($1,750), two days ($3,000) or three days ($4,000).
  • Longer Private programs: five-day and seven-day programs are available and quoted on request.
  • Filming: an optional add-on at $350 for a coach who films your approaches for an hour and goes through the footage with you.
  • Every training day is two four-hour blocks in the field.

The prices side by side

FormatDaysHours of coachingPrice
Group324$3,000
Private18$1,750
Private216$3,000
Private324$4,000

The prices are public and instant. You choose a tier, pay at checkout, and your coach settles the dates with you afterward. If your plans change and you tell us early enough, a Bootcamp can be moved once to a later date.

What each hour costs

Divide the price by the hours and the difference is easy to see.

  • Group: $3,000 for 24 hours is about $125 an hour.
  • Private, three days: $4,000 for 24 hours is about $167 an hour.
  • Private, two days: $3,000 for 16 hours is $188 an hour.
  • Private, one day: $1,750 for 8 hours is about $219 an hour.

Private costs more per hour because the coach is working on you and nobody else. The one-day format costs the most per hour, and it is the lowest total commitment. Three days is the best value per hour in Private, and Group is the least per hour overall.

What the extra money in Private buys

Not a different curriculum. Both formats cover the same four parts: approaching and conversation, attraction and delivery, numbers and dates, and rejection and follow-through. Every training day touches all four as they come up, with daygame and nightgame mixed to suit you.

The difference is what happens between approaches. In Group, a coach has up to three students, so he watches one man while the others wait or watch. You learn from what he says to them, and from hearing other men's mistakes. In Private, every approach is yours and every correction is about you.

Private also means you can choose how long to train, and the dates are arranged with you, not fixed to a published weekend. If a particular Friday to Sunday does not work, Private is the way around it.

What the price does not include

Be clear about the edges before you pay.

  • No follow-up call. The package does not include a call after the program ends.
  • Filming is separate. If you want it, it is $350, and it is never added to your order unless you choose it.
  • The figures cover the coaching. If you are traveling, plan for your own travel and stay on top. Write to hello@coldapproach.io if you want to check what else to budget for.

You do get a written practice plan at the end and community Slack access, which your coach sets up for you.

How much do dating coaches cost in general?

It varies a lot, and we will not quote other coaches' prices because they change and the packages are rarely the same. A few questions make any two programs comparable.

  1. How many hours of coaching, and where? In the field next to you, in a classroom, or on a video call?
  2. How many men per coach? A 3:1 ratio is different from a room of fifteen.
  3. Is the coach watching you approach? Feedback on what you do is worth more than feedback on what you remember.
  4. What do you leave with? A written plan, a recording, or nothing?
  5. What is left out? Follow-up calls, filming and travel are common extras.

If you searched for a specific coach's bootcamp cost, run the same five questions on his page and divide the price by the hours of in-person coaching. That one number removes most of the confusion.

Which is worth it for you

Choose Group if the main goal is real-world reps with live correction at the lowest price per hour, and you are comfortable sharing the coach's attention across a small group. A beginner does well here.

Choose Private if you want zero split attention, if being watched by other men would make you hold back, or if you need your own dates. Start with one day if you want to test the format, or choose three days for the most hours per dollar.

Think about Private longer programs if you want a larger block of coaching. Five-day and seven-day programs are available and quoted on request, and the price is arranged on a call or by email.

Whichever you choose, the money is well spent when you already know what you should be doing and cannot see what you actually do in front of a woman. It is spent badly if you are hoping to buy a result. Coaching gives you feedback, practice and a plan, and what you do with them is yours.

Questions men ask

Is Group really hands-on?

Yes. Each coach has no more than three students, and your own approaches get feedback. Attention is shared, which is the main difference from Private.

Can I start with one Private day and add more later?

The formats are separate purchases.

Is there an application?

No. The Bootcamp has public prices, instant checkout and no sales call.

Does a beginner need Private?

No. Beginners are welcome in both formats, and nobody is sent to Private first. If being watched is what worries you, Private removes the audience.

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