Bumble tracks your location with your phone's GPS. Each time you open the app it reads where the phone is, and it shows you other members based on where they are at that moment too. The place you write on your page, where you live and where you are from, is only a label. It does not change where the app thinks you are.
What the app is actually reading
Your phone always knows roughly where it is. Bumble asks the phone, and the answer decides who shows up in front of you.
That is why you cannot type in a different city and have the app believe it. Bumble says your general location cannot be customized. What you can edit is the text about where you live and where you are from, and that text is for a woman to read. It is not an input the app obeys.
Why it moves with you
Because the app follows the phone, the women you see change when you do. The stack you go through at your desk across town is a different stack from the one you get on the couch at home.
For a man who wants dates and not just a list of names, that is useful. A woman who is close is a woman you can meet this week. A match who lives an hour from where you actually spend your evenings usually stalls, because making a plan with a stranger takes effort neither of you wants to spend. Nobody has to explain this to her. She just stops answering.
The two tools that change what you see
Bumble gives paid members two tools, and both are about who sees what. Neither one lets the app lie about where you are standing.
Travel Mode lets Premium members see profiles from another place for a limited number of days, without changing their actual GPS. It is built for a trip, so you can start talking to women in a city before you land in it.
Incognito Mode is part of Premium and Premium+. It hides your location and shows you only to the people you choose.
If the app puts you in the wrong place
Sometimes the app is simply wrong. Bumble suggests four checks, and they cost nothing.
First, make sure the app has location access in your phone's settings. Second, turn off any VPN, because a VPN sends your connection through somewhere else. Third, switch from Wi-Fi to mobile data. Fourth, update the app.
Run through all four before you decide Bumble is broken. A man who skips them and swipes for a week in the wrong city has spent a week on women he cannot meet.
Where you swipe is part of your plan
Since the stack follows the phone, the place you open the app is a choice. Swipe from the neighborhood where you want your dates, and the women who show up are women who live or spend time there.
A man who works in one part of town and lives in another can use that on purpose. Open the app near the area where he would actually take someone, and keep a few spots around it in mind. A first date at a bar he already likes, ten minutes from where she is, is easy to agree to. A first date somewhere neither of you has been is a second hurdle on top of the first.
Do not try to trick it
Some men want to look like they live somewhere bigger. The reasoning is simple: a bigger city, more women.
It backfires in an ordinary way. A woman matches with the man she saw near her. When it turns out he is two hours away, the first thing she learns about him is that his page was not true, and everything he says after that gets read with suspicion. Bumble's terms also rule out deceptive or inauthentic conduct, which is a second reason not to build your approach on a trick.
You are better off using the place you really live. Women who are close are the only ones you can actually take out.
Use the closeness
a dating coach makes the point that a dating app is built to keep you on it and paying, not to get you a date. The date is something you have to push for.
Location is the one thing that works in your favor. She is near you, so a plan is cheap. After a few good exchanges, suggest a named place close to her on a named evening, and make it easy to say yes. If she is across the city, pick the spot that is fair to both of you.
Check your location setting once a month, especially after a trip or a phone update, so the stack you are working is made of women within reach.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.