Tap the heart icon at the bottom of the screen to open the Liked You tab. Women who sent you a SuperSwipe, or a Note, sit at the top of that page, and a yellow heart badge marks the ones who SuperSwiped you. That is the whole answer to where to look. What you see below them depends on your plan.
Where to look
The heart icon opens Liked You, the page that shows who has already liked you. Bumble puts the strongest signals first. A woman who sent you a SuperSwipe or a Note is placed at the top of the page, ahead of the ordinary likes, so you do not have to dig for her.
The yellow heart badge is the mark of a SuperSwipe. If you see it, she did more than tap yes. She used one of her paid extras to tell you she is interested before you have matched.
The tabs on the page
The Liked You page has tabs that sort the women for you: Really into you, Notes, Nearby and Recently active. Notes holds the women who wrote you something. Really into you is the tab to open when you want the keenest interest first. Nearby is useful when you would rather meet this week than next month.
Bumble says seeing everyone who has liked you takes Premium. Depending on your subscription level, the rest of the page shows up as a grid of faces or as a blurred stack. How much of the page you can see is the part your plan decides.
What you cannot see
Two limits are worth knowing so you do not waste time looking.
First, Bumble says there is no way to see everyone you have liked or SuperSwiped. The women you matched with are in the Chats tab, and the ones who never matched back are gone from view. If you are trying to remember who got your SuperSwipe, you will not find a list for it.
Second, a notification is not always a visible woman. If you got an alert that someone liked you and cannot find her, she may not meet the filters you set. Relaxing your filters brings her back. That is the most common cause, and it costs you nothing to check.
Treat it as a warm lead
A SuperSwipe tells you one useful thing: she has already decided she is interested. That is better than a cold start, and it changes how you should act.
Match with her and send the first message the same day. Both of you have 72 hours from the match to send an opening message, and an expired match is a waste of the one signal she gave you. Do not save her for a better moment.
Do not read it as a promise either. A SuperSwipe is a reason she liked your photos, not proof she will meet you. She may have sent it in a minute and forgotten by evening. What it earns you is a slightly warmer reception to a good first message.
What to send
Skip any line about the SuperSwipe itself. Writing "I saw you SuperSwiped me" makes it sound as if you were counting, and it hands her a line she has to respond to rather than a conversation she wants to have.
Open with something specific from her photos or prompts, one real question, and a tone that sounds like you talking. Make the question easy to answer and aim it toward meeting up. A SuperSwipe lowers the bar for getting a reply. It does not lower the bar for a good one.
When you never see a yellow heart
Plenty of men never see one. That is normal, because a SuperSwipe is a paid extra and not every woman uses one. If the tab stays empty of yellow, the cause is usually the photos in front of her, not the tab.
Sort that out first: a clear lead photo with your face visible, two or three photos that show your actual life, and prompts you would be happy to talk about on a date. If the page stays quiet after that, a second set of eyes on your whole approach usually finds the problem faster than another month of waiting.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.