Tap the Photo icon, tap the gray check mark under your name, tap Continue, give Hinge the access it asks for, and follow the prompts to record a quick video selfie. Before you start, make sure your photos include at least one crisp, unfiltered shot of your face from the front, with you as the only person in it and no sunglasses. With that photo in place, the process is quick.
The steps
- Tap the Photo icon on the far right of the menu along the bottom.
- Tap the gray check mark just under your name.
- Tap Continue, then tap Allow Camera Access.
- Follow the on-screen prompts to record your video selfie.
Hinge calls Selfie Verification voluntary. You do not have to do it, and you can do it whenever you like. Once it goes through, a verified badge appears on your page.
Get the photo right before you start
Verification compares your video selfie with the photos already on your page, so the photos are where it succeeds or fails. Hinge needs one or more photos showing your face straight on.
Hinge is specific about that photo. Hinge wants it sharp and unedited, with you in focus and nobody else in it. You should be facing the lens directly and not wearing sunglasses.
Plenty of men do not have a single photo like that. Their set is a group shot, a hat and shades at the beach, a blurry night out and a car selfie with a filter on it. If that is you, take the photo first. Stand in front of a plain wall in good daylight, have a friend hold the phone at eye level, look straight at it and smile like you mean it. That one shot gets you verified and gives you a strong photo for your set at the same time.
Record the video properly
The video is quick, but a little care helps it go through the first time.
Sit or stand somewhere bright, with the light in front of you rather than behind. Hold the phone steady at face height. Take off your hat and sunglasses. Follow each prompt as it appears, without rushing. That is all it asks of you.
What happens afterwards
When it works, a verified badge appears on your page. Hinge says every user can see which accounts are verified, whether they have verified themselves or not.
Hinge also says the video selfie is not added to your page. It is used for the check, and she never sees it.
One more thing to know. The badge vouches for the exact set of photos you had up when you verified. Swap them out later and it may disappear. Hinge's advice then is to adjust the photos and verify a second time.
The badge answers a question she has while swiping
Women on the apps are wary of fake accounts and of men whose photos turn out to be years old or heavily edited. When a woman opens your page, some part of her is checking whether you are real.
The badge settles that in a glance. With it there, she has one less thing to wonder about, and she can move on to the part that matters, which is whether she likes you. That small bit of trust counts at the exact moment she chooses between answering your like and scrolling on.
It matters more for a new account, or when your photos are unusually good. A man who looks great in every photo can seem too good to be true. The badge tells her the photos are really you.
What the badge cannot do
A badge confirms you look like your photos. That is its whole job.
It does not make weak photos attractive, and it does not make a dull first line interesting. Hinge is also clear that it is not a promise about anyone's safety, so it is a starting point for trust rather than proof of character.
So verify, because it is quick and it helps. Then put your effort where it counts. Photos that show a real, enjoyable life. Prompt answers she can reply to. And conversations that move from a few easy lines to a clear invitation before they go quiet. The badge gets you a fair look. What you send decides what happens next.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.