How to Remove, Report, or Unmatch Someone on Lox Club

Lox Club gives you three tools. In the Members tab, the bottom of each member's page has Remove Member, which permanently takes that person out of your queue and takes you out of theirs, and Report Member. In the Chat tab, tapping the three dots on a match reveals Report and Unmatch. Unmatching removes the member and your conversation with her. Every report goes to Lox Club's Trust & Safety team and is kept anonymous.

You will find Remove Member at the bottom of every profile in the Members tab.

It is permanent. Lox Club says it takes that person out of your queue and takes you out of hers. Neither of you will see the other again.

That makes it the right tool for anyone you simply do not want to cross paths with on the app. An ex, a coworker, your friend's sister, a woman you already went out with and would rather not see again. Nothing is wrong with any of them. You just do not want them in your queue, and you would rather not appear in theirs.

There are two places to report someone.

Report Member sits next to Remove Member at the bottom of a profile in the Members tab. Report sits behind the three dots on a match in the Chat tab. So you can flag someone whether you came across her while browsing members or are already talking to her.

Either way, the report goes to the Trust & Safety team, and Lox Club keeps it anonymous. The person you report is not told it was you.

Save reports for real problems. A fake account, harassment, threats, or someone clearly breaking the rules is what the tool is for. A woman who stopped replying is not a safety issue. That is just online dating.

Unmatch lives behind the same three dots in the Chat tab. It removes the member and the conversation.

Treat it as final. Once you unmatch, the conversation is gone, so do not unmatch on impulse after one awkward exchange. If a chat has simply gone quiet, there is no need to do anything at all.

If a match has done something that deserves a report, report her first, while the conversation is still there. Unmatching removes the conversation, so doing it in the other order means acting after the record is gone.

Take a breath before either step. Unless the situation is clearly serious, give yourself a few minutes to decide whether you want to report, unmatch, or just stop replying.

Most of the time, ending things is not about reporting anyone. You went on a date, it was fine, and you do not want a second one. Or you have been chatting and realized she is not for you.

A short, kind message is better than silently vanishing. "I really enjoyed meeting you, but I didn't feel the spark I was hoping for. Wishing you the best." That takes ten seconds and leaves her with nothing to wonder about. You can unmatch afterward if you want a clean slate.

It is also in your interest. a dating coach makes the point that on dating apps, a man who offends women to the point that they complain about him and unmatch him is working against himself. How you leave a conversation is part of how you treat people on the app.

It happens to every man on every app, and it tells you very little on its own. People unmatch because they met someone, because they are taking a break, or for no reason you will ever learn.

Let it go. Do not look for her on Instagram or LinkedIn, and do not ask mutual friends what happened. If she wanted the conversation to continue, it would have. Put that energy into the women who are replying to you, and ask the good ones out.