Five. Bumble's help center says you can choose up to five interests, and they can come from different categories or all from the same one. You can also mark an interest as a favorite, to show what you care about most.

How to add interests

On the Bumble app:

  1. Open your page and tap "Edit profile."
  2. Scroll to the Interests section and tap "Add interests."
  3. Pick the ones that best represent you.
  4. Tap "Continue."

You can also mark one of the interests you have chosen as a favorite. Bumble's tips call this picking a Favorite Interest and say it helps you stand out even more.

Bumble also suggests keeping your interests up to date, so your page stays fresh. If you stopped playing pickup basketball two years ago, take it off.

What she sees while swiping

Your interests are not hidden away. Bumble's page on the People tab says that when someone scrolls through a person's page, they see details including photos, bio, interests, and the Spotify artists that person likes.

They can also matter before she reaches you. Bumble's basic filters include age and languages. They also include an option for similar interests. So your five picks are one of the things a woman can use to decide who she sees.

That makes them worth ten minutes of thought, not ten seconds of tapping whatever appears first.

Pick the five that start a conversation

Bumble's advice is to pick a mix of fun, active and creative options that reflect who you are. That is a good starting point. Here is how to make the mix work harder.

Choose things you actually do, not things you would like to be the kind of man who does. If you pick climbing, she may ask where you climb, and "I went once in college" is a flat answer.

Choose interests your photos back up. An interest in cooking next to a photo of you at the stove is twice as convincing as either one on its own.

Choose a spread. Five interests that all say gym, gym, gym, protein, running tell her one thing five times. A sport, a food thing, something creative, something social and something a bit unexpected tell her five things.

Keep one that is slightly unusual. The common picks are fine, but the odd one is what a woman comments on.

Use the favorite for the one you could talk about for an hour

Of your five, one probably matters more to you than the rest. Mark that one.

It points her toward the subject you are most fun on. When she asks about it, you have real stories, opinions and details, and you sound like a man with a life rather than a man filling in a form.

Back each interest up somewhere else on your page

An interest badge on its own is a claim. It gets believable when something else on your page agrees with it.

So go through your five and ask where each one shows up besides the badge. Climbing should have a photo on a wall. Cooking might be a prompt about the dish you are proudest of. Live music might be your Spotify artists, which Bumble lets you connect and show on your page. Travel should be at least one photo from somewhere that is clearly not your hometown.

If an interest has no support anywhere, either add the support or swap the interest for one that does. Your bio has only 300 characters, so it is not the place to list hobbies. Let the badges name them, and let your photos and prompts prove them. When she sees the same thing from two directions, she stops wondering whether it is true and starts wondering what you would do together.

Turn a shared interest into your first message

On Bumble, once you match, each of you gets one opening message, and you both have 72 hours from matching to send it. Bumble's tips for that opener include mentioning a shared interest.

The trap is mentioning it flatly. "I like hiking too" gives her nothing to answer except "cool."

Make it specific and give it a hook instead:

  • Shared interest in hiking: "Settle something for me. Is the famous trail near here worth it, or is it just a line with a view?"
  • Shared interest in coffee: "You picked coffee as an interest, so I need your ranking of the best espresso in the city. Mine is controversial."
  • Shared interest in live music: "Best show you have ever been to, and did it beat the one you pretend you did not enjoy?"

Each one uses the interest as a way in, then asks for her opinion, which is much easier to answer than a question about her life story.

Keep them honest and up to date

Interests you do not really have tend to come out on the date, and quickly. If you listed wine and cannot name a grape, she notices.

Update them when your life changes, as Bumble suggests. A man whose interests match what his week actually looks like is easy to picture spending time with, and that picture is what gets you a yes to the drink.