Free Text Search lets you type what you are looking for in plain words, and Match uses AI to find members on the dating site whose details fit your request. It is the opposite of swiping through whoever appears: you describe her and let the search do the sorting. It is offered in the U.S., the results can include related members rather than exact hits, and you cannot search for illegal content or for a specific person by name or social handle.

What the search reads

The AI compares your request with what members have filled in and written. Match names three things it looks at: profile fields, bios and prompt answers.

Profile fields are the structured details, such as whether someone wants kids or how often she drinks. Bios and prompt answers are the parts she wrote in her own words. That second group is what makes Free Text Search different from a normal filter. A filter cannot tell you that a woman spends her weekends rock climbing. Her bio can.

Why the results are close, not exact

The results may include related members rather than exact matches.

That is the AI doing what it is meant to do. Ask for a woman who loves hiking and you may also get a woman who writes about camping trips and long walks with her dog. She never used the word hiking, but she is close.

So treat the results as a shortlist to read, not a list of perfect fits. Open the pages and decide for yourself.

What you cannot search for

Some searches are not allowed. You cannot search for illegal content, and you cannot search for a specific person by name or by social media handle.

Know that before you try it. Free Text Search is for describing the kind of woman you want, not for tracking down someone in particular.

Write the request the way you would describe your type to a friend who is setting you up. Be specific about the things that actually matter to you and leave out the rest.

"Loves to travel" is so common that it barely narrows anything. "Has lived abroad and wants to again" narrows a lot. "Active" is vague, while "runs most mornings" is not.

Put your real priorities first. If wanting kids is a dealbreaker, say so. If you want someone who reads, say that too. Two or three specific traits will usually give you a better shortlist than a long wish list, because the longer the list, the fewer women can fit all of it.

Then run a few versions. Change one detail at a time and see how the results shift. Treat it as a test you repeat, not a single search.

Searches worth trying

If you are not sure where to start, describe a Saturday you would enjoy with her rather than a list of traits. "Likes early morning hikes and a slow breakfast after" gives the search real detail to work with.

You can also search around a shared value. "Close to her family and wants kids in the next few years" is the kind of request an ordinary filter cannot make.

And try one search built around something you genuinely love doing. If you play in a Sunday football league, a woman who writes about watching games with friends already has something to talk to you about.

Your own words decide who finds you

The same search reads your page too. When a woman types what she is looking for, your profile fields, your bio and your prompt answers are what her request gets compared against.

So a vague bio is a quiet problem. Write that you like to laugh and enjoy good food, and you fit almost nothing anyone types. Write that you cook a big Sunday dinner for friends and spend a week each winter skiing, and you show up for the women who want exactly that.

Fill in your structured details honestly and completely. Write your bio with specific, true details. Saying what you want in a partner helps as well, because it tells her something about you: a man who wants a woman who travels probably travels himself.

From a result to a date

A good shortlist is only useful if you write to it.

Pick the women who genuinely interest you, read their pages, and send a short first message that mentions one specific detail. Free Text Search often hands you that detail directly, because the thing you searched for is written right there on her page.

Turn that detail into a question rather than a remark. "You wrote that you lived in Spain. Where would you go back to first?" gives her something to answer. "I see you like Spain" gives her nothing.

Use it, ask a question she can answer in a sentence, and suggest meeting once the conversation is going well.