First work out what kind of block you have, because Badoo treats them differently. If you cannot log in, the account may be temporarily locked or under review for safety reasons. If you believe Badoo got it wrong, you contact Badoo support and say so. If you simply typed the wrong login, you never had a block at all, and that is the first thing to rule out.

This article is about your own account being blocked. If you meant a person you blocked yourself, that is a different setting.

Rule out a login mistake first

Badoo advises checking the basics before anything else. Make sure you are using the right phone number or email, or the Google, Facebook or Apple account you linked when you signed up.

Men get this wrong more often than they expect. You may have signed up with a phone number years ago and be trying an email now, or you may have used a Google account you rarely open. If the login method is wrong, Badoo will treat you as a stranger, and it can look like a block.

Try each method you might have used before you decide the account is gone.

A locked account or one under review

Badoo says a member who cannot log in may be dealing with an account that is temporarily locked or under review for safety reasons. The word to notice is temporarily. A review is something Badoo does, and you wait for it to finish or you contact support.

While you wait, do not keep trying to log in over and over, and do not open a second account to get around it. A second account is not a fix, and it puts a problem on top of a problem. If Badoo is reviewing the account, stay on the route Badoo gives you: support.

A block after failing verification

Badoo says a member who fails photo verification and uses all the attempts can be locked out of the account. The advice here is to contact Badoo support.

Write the message calmly and plainly. Say what happened, which account it is, and which login you use. Skip the anger. A short, factual note is easier for someone to act on than a long complaint. It is the same rule that makes a good first message to a woman work. Say a specific thing, keep it light, and make the next step obvious.

When you do get back in, fix the cause. Replace old or heavily edited photos with recent ones that look like you, so the next check passes.

A warning or a ban

Badoo may remove content, give a warning or ban a member who breaks its content rules. A warning is a chance to change what you post. A ban is a heavier decision.

If you think Badoo made a mistake with the account or with a piece of content, you can contact Badoo support and ask. That is the one legitimate route, and Badoo says so itself.

If the rule was broken, the honest answer is that no trick brings the account back. Look at what Badoo flagged and read its content rules before you start again. It is also worth knowing that a dating coach has said coming on strong too early, especially sexually, makes women nervous even when they find the man attractive. Keeping your talk light and specific protects you with the app and with her.

What to do with the time you are locked out

A locked account feels like losing a week of progress, and it is not that bad. Use the time.

My view is that online dating is a numbers game you can win, and that the ratios matter more than any single day. Take stock of those ratios. How many matches did you get, how many turned into real conversations, and how many became plans? If the weak step was early, the cause is usually photos. If it was later, it is usually what you said in your messages.

Fix the weak step while you wait, so the account you get back is better than the one you lost.

Do not let it be your only channel

Men who put every hope on one app feel a block like a disaster. Spread the effort. Keep a second app running, and say yes to the friend who wants to introduce you to someone.

A block on one app is an inconvenience, not a verdict on you. The goal is a date, and a date can come from any of them.