You ask Google, not Tinder. Tinder states that for purchases made directly through Google, Google handles all refunds and cancellations. That covers Tinder subscriptions and consumables, such as Boosts and Super Likes. You go to Google's support page, which gives the steps for your region. Google then reviews the request at its own discretion and under its own refund policy.

Confirm it was a Google Play charge

An Android phone does not always mean Google took the money. Tinder lets Android users pay by credit card or PayPal directly through the app, and those purchases belong to Tinder, not to Google.

The order number settles it. An order starting with GPA was processed by Google Play, and Tinder sends those to Google Play Support. An order starting with TNDR or COSU is Tinder's own, and Tinder handles those requests itself. Check the number before you do anything else. Google cannot refund a payment Tinder took, and Tinder cannot refund one Google took.

Where the request goes

For a GPA order, go to Google's support page for Play Store refunds. Tinder points you there rather than dealing with it, because Google handles the payment and the refund decision.

The page walks you through the steps that apply where you live. Follow them as Google lays them out. The details depend on your region, so a friend's account of how it worked for him in another country may not match what you see.

If you live in the EU, the EEA, the UK or Switzerland, there is one more thing to know. Tinder's Terms of Use say that subscribers there are entitled, under local law, to a full refund in the 14 days after a subscription begins. Mention it if your request falls inside that window.

What to put in the request

Be brief and exact. Name the charge, the date and what went wrong. It might be a renewal you meant to stop, a Boost bought by mistake, or the same plan charged twice. Ask for that one charge back.

Then cancel, if it was a subscription. Google handles cancellations for Play Store plans as well as refunds. Open the Google Play app, tap your profile icon, go to Payments and Subscriptions, then Subscriptions, select Tinder and tap Cancel subscription. A plan renews automatically until it is cancelled, so a refund on this month does nothing about next month.

If Google says no

Google's decision is Google's. Tinder says refunds are reviewed at the platform's discretion, and Tinder cannot overrule it.

A refusal does not mean the money is wasted. Once you cancel, Tinder's Terms say you keep the paid benefits until the end of the period you already paid for. So you still have those days, and it is worth using them properly instead of leaving the app closed out of annoyance.

Resist the urge to dispute the charge with your bank instead. Tinder's Terms of Use say that a chargeback or payment reversal can get your Tinder account terminated immediately. Losing one period's money is annoying. Losing the account, with every match and conversation in it, is worse.

Money is cheap, time on the app is not

a dating coach's case for paying for dating apps is about time. If you earn a decent living, he argues, trading a little money for time is probably worth it. A paid tier can save you hours of work on the app.

The flip side is that a plan does nothing for an account you rarely open. a dating coach points out that an account that never logs on looks like a man who has lost interest, and the app has little reason to show it to anyone. A subscription running on a phone you check twice a week is money spent for very little.

Pay for a plan you will use

So if you pay again, pay for a plan you are going to use, and give it a place in your week.

Pick a regular time to open the app, such as twenty minutes after dinner. Reply to the women who wrote to you. Send the messages you have been putting off. When a conversation is going well, suggest a drink rather than letting it drift for days.

That habit is what makes the next charge worth paying, whichever store takes it. And if a month of steady use still leaves your matches and conversations where they were, you will know the plan was not the problem. Cancel it, keep the habit, and put your effort into your first photo and your opening line.