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Sex Drive Compatibility, Drive Collapses, & Relationship Sex Issues

A lot of “dead bedroom” problems are not really about sex. They’re about mismatched expectations, stress, resentment, and two people quietly waiting for the…

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Security & Trust in Long-Term Relationships
A lot of men think trust is built by saying the right thing. It isn’t. Trust is built when your partner can predict your behavior without having to guess…
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Scare Tactics and the Illusion of Control in Life and Relationships
A lot of men think fear is a useful management tool: fear keeps you working, fear keeps you loyal, fear keeps you from getting hurt.
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Romantic Dates Can Still Pull
Romantic dates don’t fail because they’re “too nice.” They fail when they feel unearned, overplanned, or like the guy is trying to buy chemistry with candles…
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The hardest part of relationships isn’t finding someone. It’s staying sane, honest, and attractive once the novelty wears off.
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Relationship Skills
Most dating problems are not “I need better lines.” They’re “I don’t know how to handle another human being when things get real.” Relationship skills are…
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Relationship Series: Recaps, Takeaways, and One Last Note
Most relationship problems are not caused by a lack of love. They’re caused by people ignoring habits that were obvious six weeks ago.
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Relationship Problems: How to Know You've Got Some (for Men)
Most relationship problems don’t announce themselves with a dramatic fight. They start as “small stuff” you keep explaining away until your relationship feels…
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Relationship Models: Implicit vs Explicit, Single vs Multi-Partner
Most relationship problems are not caused by a lack of love. They’re caused by two people running different relationship models and pretending they’re on the…
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Relationship Management: Getting the Woman Is Just Round One
Getting a date is not the hard part. The hard part is becoming the kind of man a good relationship can actually survive.
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Relationship Jealousy: Here's How to Beat It
Jealousy usually isn’t proof that your relationship is in trouble. It’s proof that your nervous system thinks it is.
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Relationship Control and Woman Domination
A lot of men hear “control” in a relationship and picture domination, manipulation, or walking on eggshells. That’s usually not control.
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Relationship Communication: The Olive Rule
Most relationship fights are not about the thing they are about. They are about two people failing to handle a small preference before it turns into a…
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Recognizing a Troubled Relationship
A troubled relationship usually doesn’t announce itself with one huge disaster. It leaks out through small habits you start explaining away.
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Quit Trying to Win Over Your Girlfriend
The harder you try to “win” your girlfriend, the less attractive you usually become.
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Polyamory: I Went on a Date With Two Women at the Same Time
Polyamory sounds exciting until you realize it is mostly advanced communication with a side of emotional bookkeeping.
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Polyamory, Pt.3: How I Met My Poly-Partners
The biggest myth about meeting poly people is that you need a special “poly scene.” You don’t.
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Polyamory, Pt.2: What to Look for in Potential Partners
The biggest mistake people make in polyamory is thinking the “right person” is whoever seems most excited about you.

Relationships

Sex Drive Compatibility, Drive Collapses, & Relationship Sex Issues

Security & Trust in Long-Term Relationships

Scare Tactics and the Illusion of Control in Life and Relationships

Romantic Dates Can Still Pull

Relationships

Relationship Skills

Relationship Series: Recaps, Takeaways, and One Last Note

Relationship Problems: How to Know You've Got Some (for Men)

Relationship Models: Implicit vs Explicit, Single vs Multi-Partner

Relationship Management: Getting the Woman Is Just Round One

Relationship Jealousy: Here's How to Beat It

Relationship Control and Woman Domination

Relationship Communication: The Olive Rule

Recognizing a Troubled Relationship

Quit Trying to Win Over Your Girlfriend

Polyamory: I Went on a Date With Two Women at the Same Time

Polyamory, Pt.3: How I Met My Poly-Partners

Polyamory, Pt.2: What to Look for in Potential Partners