None of the big dating apps removes distance completely. Tinder, Hinge and Bumble each let you widen your radius and tick a box that shows people outside it. Tinder, Bumble and Feeld also let you search a different place on purpose. So the closest thing to "no limit" is a wide setting plus the option that shows profiles beyond it, and it works one place at a time.
What each app offers
Tinder's Discovery Settings let you set a maximum distance. A separate toggle controls whether Tinder shows people slightly outside your distance and age range.
Passport Mode is the tool for another place. It is included with Tinder Plus, Gold and Platinum, or bought separately. You search by city or drop a pin to appear in another city, one city at a time.
Hinge has a Maximum Distance slider that sets your radius. Ticking "Show profiles outside this preference" also shows users beyond that distance.
That tick box is the nearest Hinge comes to no limit. It does not remove the radius. It lets the app bend it.
Bumble says its Distance filter is available only in certain listed countries. A "Show other people if I run out" option can show people outside your filters.
Travel Mode, which comes with Premium or Premium+, shows profiles from a place you pick for 7 days without changing your actual GPS. It is a visit, not a permanent setting.
Feeld shows members based on your current location by default. You can switch to one of a list of popular locations or to a virtual location, one at a time.
The comparison
| App | How to widen it | How to search another place |
|---|---|---|
| Tinder | Maximum distance, plus a toggle for people slightly outside | Passport Mode, one city at a time |
| Hinge | Maximum Distance slider, plus "Show profiles outside this preference" | Not listed in the help article |
| Bumble | Distance filter in listed countries, plus "Show other people if I run out" | Travel Mode with Premium or Premium+ |
| Feeld | Current location by default | A popular or virtual location, one at a time |
Why a bigger radius is not always a better one
Men set the distance as wide as it goes because it feels like more chances. It usually means more matches and fewer dates.
A woman three hours away who writes back is a pen pal until one of you makes a plan, and distance is the reason most of those plans die. a dating coach's rule for online dates is to put the venue near your own place. That is hard to do when she lives somewhere you cannot reach on a weeknight.
So set the radius to the area you would actually travel on a Tuesday, then widen it only when the list runs dry. The tick boxes that show people outside your range are a fallback for that moment, not a default.
When to search another place
Searching another city makes sense when you are about to be there. A man who is flying in for a week can use Passport Mode or Travel Mode to line up a couple of dates before he lands.
It makes less sense as a way to get a bigger pool for a man who is not going anywhere. Matches in a city you will never visit are a distraction, and each reply costs you time you could spend on the ones near you.
A last point on timing: the settings do not stack up the way men hope. A wider radius gives you more people, and every extra person is another conversation that needs a plan. Decide how many you can actually answer in a week, and set the distance to feed that number, not a bigger one.
Keep the plan honest in the first message. If you are in her city for a short stretch, say so. A woman who knows the dates are limited can decide quickly, and the ones who say yes tend to show up.
What to do with the extra reach
If the app can show you more people, the job is to be worth answering. Photos that read well on a small screen and an opening line about something in her profile do more than any radius.
A short check helps: how many matches in your current radius have you actually messaged? If the answer is "not many", widening the circle adds names to a list you are already not working.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.