A good Badoo bio is two or three short sentences about your real week, with one detail only you could have written and a last line she can answer in a few words. Badoo shows a woman your photo, name, age and a few details before anything else, so the bio is read second, by a woman who already liked your face. Its job is to give her something easy to say back.

Where she reads it

The card in Encounters leads with your photo, then your name, age and a few details. The bio is what she reads when your photo earned another few seconds.

That order tells you what the bio can and cannot do. It cannot rescue a dark or blurry first photo, because she never gets to the words. a dating coach makes the same point about every app: a man can have a great bio and a great personality, and if the first photo puts her off she is gone before she reads a line. Fix the photos first. Badoo's own advice for better results is clear, recent photos, photo verification and a short description, and the short description is what this page is about.

What a bio is for

Nobody can summarize their character in three sentences, and the men who try end up with a paragraph of adjectives that fits any man alive.

The bio has one job: make the woman who just liked your photo feel that writing to you would be easy and a little interesting. That means one fact, one small flaw or joke, and one thing she can respond to.

Three sentences that work

Answer these in plain words before you write anything.

  1. What do you do all week? A job, a habit, a place you go every Tuesday.
  2. What do you do on a day off? Something specific enough to picture.
  3. What would you like a woman to ask you about? A small opinion, a bad hobby, a place you want a recommendation for.

Turn the three answers into three sentences and read them aloud. If a sentence could describe any man, cut it. If it sounds like an advertisement, rewrite it the way you would say it to a friend across a table.

Three examples

These men are invented. They are not clients, and no result is claimed for them. Copy the shape, not the sentences.

The nurse who works nights. "Night shifts, so my Saturday is your Tuesday. I make one very good omelet and I am slowly losing a running argument with my neighbor's dog. What is the best breakfast place that is open at an odd hour?"

The new man in town. "Six months in this city and I still get lost between two streets I walk every day. Ask me about the three coffee shops I have ranked. Tell me where I am wrong."

The carpenter who plays bad chess. "I build kitchens for a living and lose at chess for fun. Sundays are for the lake or a long dinner with my family. Convince me that the opening everyone tells me to learn is worth learning."

Each one gives her a job, a hobby and a real question. A woman can answer any of the three without thinking about it, and that is the only test that matters.

Lines to cut

Some sentences are so common that they carry no information at all. "Looking for my partner in crime," "love to laugh," "just ask" and "here for something real" all read as empty space.

Cut the list of things you do not want. A line that tells women to move on if they are after drama sounds like a man who has had a rough few months, and she has no reason to sign up for that.

Cut the apology too. "Not great at these" asks her to lower her expectations before she knows you. And cut anything that tries to sound like a gentleman. My example of the line that gets skipped is the man who says he is a gentleman who knows how to treat a lady. Many men write that sentence, and a woman who has read it all evening skips it from boredom, not from dislike.

Be a little specific about what you want

Women read this part carefully, because it tells them whether you are a match for what they came for. You do not need to write a manifesto. One honest phrase does it.

A man who wants a relationship can say he is tired of dating for sport. A man who wants to see where things go can say he would like a good first date and no script. A man who wants something casual should say so plainly, in his own words, because a woman who finds out later will remember the delay and not the charm.

My standing point is that what you project has to match the man who turns up. A bio that promises a hiker and delivers a man who stays in on Sundays is a first date that feels like meeting someone else.

Match it to your photos

A claim in your bio needs a photo behind it. If you write that you cook and every picture is a gym mirror, she notices the gap without being able to name it.

Badoo's Smart Photo moves your best-performing photo to the front automatically, and you cannot opt out. So every photo you upload has to be one you would be happy for her to see first. The bio then reads as the caption to a set that already tells the same story.

A last check

Read the bio aloud once, then change one thing at a time and count for two weeks. Note how many women you liked, how many liked you back, how many conversations started and how many dates you set. If the bio changed and the numbers did not, the problem is more often the lead photo than the words.

Keep the bio short, keep it true, and end it on something she can answer.