Start with the large apps that let you join, match and send messages without paying: Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, OkCupid and Plenty of Fish all describe a free way in. Which one is best in your city depends on how many women near you actually use it, and none of the sources we read gives a count for Canada. So pick two, run them for two weeks with the same photos, and keep whichever one gets you more conversations and plans.

What free covers

By their own help pages, these apps let you make a page, like or match with people, and talk once you are matched. OkCupid says messaging is free once two people Like each other. Plenty of Fish says a free member can filter by gender, location, age, distance and religion and can message his mutual matches.

What costs money is mostly visibility and control: seeing who already liked you, sending more likes, using filters and boosting your page. Apps change what is free, so read the app's own help page before you count on any of this.

Free sites and free apps are not the same

Small free sites tend to disappoint, and the reasons are plain. Nothing screens out people who are not serious, the site still has to earn money somewhere, and a site few people use shows you the same faces all week.

The big apps do better on the part that matters, which is a large pool of real people. They are free to use at a basic level and none of them is free of fake accounts or time wasters, but a man with good photos and a specific first line can get dates from a free account.

If you try a site you do not know, count how many new women appear in your first two evenings. A stack that runs dry fast is a site that is empty where you live.

Which to try first

a dating coach names Tinder, Hinge and Bumble as the three to know. He says Tinder carries a hookup reputation and Hinge and Bumble lean toward relationships. He also says that in the US, Hinge tends to be better in a lot of major cities because Tinder has many fake accounts there. Canada is not the US, so treat that as a reason to test, not a ruling.

Add OkCupid or Plenty of Fish as a second free option if you want to search with filters before you pay for anything. Facebook says Dating is available in Canada, and you switch it on inside the Facebook app. The League also names Canada, but it is gated: you apply and wait, so it is not the quick way to start.

Language and distance

Canada has two official languages, and a message written in the language she used on her page reads as attention. If you can write in French, that is worth doing in a place where many women do.

Distance is the other setting. Outside a few large cities, people live far apart. If the same faces keep showing up, widen the distance a little and plan to travel for a date. In a big city, keep it small and be selective.

a dating coach adds that an app reads how selective you are. A man who swipes right on nearly everyone looks less attractive to the app, and gets shown fewer of the women he wants.

Get matches before you pay

a dating coach's advice on money is to get at least some matches for free first. Paying multiplies what you already get. A weak first photo and a flat opening line do not improve with a subscription.

When you have a few matches and conversations coming in, try one paid tier on one app for a short time. If your results do not change, cancel.

Run a two-week test

Pick two apps. Use the same photos, the same short written lines and the same kind of first message on both. Count how many women you liked, how many matched, how many answered your first message and how many agreed to meet.

After two weeks, keep the app that gave you the most replies and plans. a dating coach says there is no need to be loyal to one app, and that a man can do badly on one and well on another because of how each one sorts and who uses it.

What matters more than the site

Photos come first: clear light, your face, a few shots of a real week. Then a first message about something she wrote, and a plan made inside a handful of texts.

A free app is only the introduction. The date comes from you asking for one, in a simple place near where you live.