If you live in or near Miami or New York, yes. A ColdApproach.io Bootcamp runs in those two US cities and nowhere else. It is where you meet women in person, approaching real women in real venues with a coach beside you. If you live somewhere else, you can still go, but you travel to one of the two.
Men search for a bootcamp in Los Angeles, San Francisco, Toronto or Vancouver. None of those cities hosts one. A man in any of them books a trip.
Why only two cities
A Bootcamp is in person and fully in the field. Each training day is two four-hour coaching blocks of live approaching. By day that happens in cafes and on streets. At night it happens in bars and lounges. A coach stands next to you. That cannot be done over video, so there is no remote version.
Miami and New York are where the coaches run it. No other city is a Bootcamp location.
What you travel for
You travel for in-field coaching, not a classroom. Daygame happens by day and nightgame at night, so a training day covers approaching women in daylight venues and in the evening. The coach watches your approaches, tells you what worked and what to change, and you go again. Group and Private run the same way. Group never puts more than three students with one coach, and Private pairs you with your coach alone.
If you live somewhere else
Plan the Bootcamp as a short trip. Group is three consecutive days. Private can be one, two or three days, so the trip can be shorter.
You pick the city that is easier for you to reach.
How the dates work
Group's published weekends are in Miami and run Friday to Sunday. You can take one of these weekends at checkout. Otherwise the exact weekend is scheduled with you after you buy.
Private has no calendar. It is arranged with you after booking, in either city.
Group coaching in New York is available on request. Private dates are arranged with your coach.
What happens after you book
After you pay, an email arrives on its own. It says clearly that the program runs only in Miami or New York. You choose a city and reply with the days you are free.
The email also offers a free 15-minute Bootcamp Kickoff Call. It is a chance to ask anything before the training starts, such as how the days are structured.
What to do between now and the trip
Waiting for a date does not have to mean waiting to practice. The Mentorship Program coaches you over weekly video calls while you approach women where you live, so you can work on your approach and your conversation before you travel.
You can also start with small steps where you live. Say hello to one stranger a day. Ask a barista a real question. None of it is the Bootcamp, but a man who arrives having already talked to a few strangers has less to overcome on day one.
Questions men ask
Can I do a Bootcamp in my own city?
No. The only locations are Miami and New York.
Is there an online version of the Bootcamp?
No. The training is in the field with a coach beside you. The Mentorship Program is separate. It is coached over weekly video calls while you approach women where you live.
Do I need to be experienced before I travel?
No. There is no skill floor, and a total beginner is welcome in Group and in Private.
What if I am not sure which city?
You choose after you buy. The welcome email asks which city you want and the days you are free, and the free 15-minute Bootcamp Kickoff Call answers any question before the training starts.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.




















