Bumble's own advice for more matches starts with recent, clear photos of yourself and a line saying what you are looking for. It also says to verify your photos, fill in details like your job and education, and relax your filters a little. It warns against two habits: deleting and recreating your account, and saying no to most people. Photos do most of the work, so start there.
Recent, clear photos come first
Bumble's page on standing out asks for recent photos that are clear and feature you, so people know who they are connecting with. Its page on uploading photos adds that bright, well-lit shots where your face is easy to see work best. It also says to avoid heavy filters and overly edited pictures.
This is where a lot of men lose matches without knowing it. The coaching material is blunt that photos decide the first look. A woman who does not like your first photo rarely reads anything else you wrote.
Lead with a clear photo of your face in daylight. Follow it with a few photos from different days that show an ordinary week with you in it: a hobby, a moment with friends, somewhere you have traveled. Bumble suggests the same kinds of shots. You can also turn on Best Photo, which Bumble says checks your photos and puts the most popular one first.
Say what you are looking for
Bumble's first tip is a bio that states what you are looking for, your interests, and maybe a fun fact about yourself. Its reasoning is that this gives people reasons to start a conversation with you.
Two or three plain sentences do it. Say what you want in a relaxed way, name something you actually do on a weekend, and give her one easy thing to ask about. Skip the list of demands and the jokes about hating small talk.
Something like this works: "Looking for someone to try new restaurants with and see where it goes. Most Saturdays I am on a bike or at the farmers market. Ask me about the time I got lost in Lisbon." It is short, it sounds like a person, and it hands her three easy openers.
Verify your photos
Bumble recommends Photo Verification so people know you are really you. It is mandatory in the USA and optional elsewhere unless Bumble asks. You take a selfie, and Bumble checks that it matches the photos on your page.
Do it even where it is optional. A blue check answers the first question many women have about a stranger online, which is whether he is real. Bumble also lists whether a profile is verified among the filters members use to curate who they see.
Fill in the details and answer the prompts
Bumble recommends adding details like your job, education and even your Spotify favorites. It suggests prompts to show your personality, and Interest Badges that reflect you, including a Favorite Interest.
Fill in enough that a woman can picture your life, then stop. The coaching material suggests getting your page most of the way complete rather than answering every field, because a page stuffed with every detail can read as trying too hard.
Bumble lets you add a few prompts. Use them for answers a woman could react to in one line. "Ask me about the worst fishing trip of my life" gives her something to say. "I love to laugh" gives her nothing.
Relax your filters and keep your swiping balanced
Bumble says even small changes to your age or distance filters can introduce you to compatible people you might have missed. It also advises keeping your swipe behavior balanced. If you are saying no to most people, it says, you might be missing out on great connections.
Widen your age range by a couple of years and your distance by a little, and see who appears. Then look past each woman's first photo before you decide. You do not need to swipe right on everyone. A left swipe should still be a real decision rather than a reflex.
Keep one account and change one thing at a time
Bumble says repeatedly deleting and recreating your account can hurt your chances. A consistent profile, it says, helps others recognize you and improves your matches.
So improve the account you have. Change one photo or one line at a time. Give it a week, then compare how many women liked you against the week before. The coaching material on testing is firm about this. When you change everything at once, you never learn which change worked.
Where Spotlights fit
Bumble's list also includes Spotlights, which put you in front of more people for a while. Use one after your photos are fixed, not before. A Spotlight shows your current page to more women, so it helps a strong page and does little for a weak one.
When the matches start coming in, answer them. Bumble gives each new match a limited time for an opening message, and a match that nobody writes to expires. Send her something specific, and send it early.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.