Yes, but only with Majestic, and only for your most recent dislike in Discover. Tap the undo button straight away, because it disappears as soon as you like or dislike the next person. Free members cannot undo a dislike at all, and a dislike you make in Who Likes You cannot be undone by anyone.
How the undo works
The rule is narrow, so it is worth knowing exactly.
- You need Majestic. On the free plan there is no undo button.
- It only works in Discover, on the last person you disliked.
- The button lasts only until your next decision. Like or dislike anyone else and it is gone, along with your chance to bring her back that way.
So the moment you realize you tapped the wrong way, stop. Do not scroll on to see who is next. Tap undo first.
The one place undo never works
Dislikes made in Who Likes You are final, even with Majestic. That list shows women who have already liked you, so a dislike there turns down someone who had already said yes.
Treat that list with more care than Discover, not less. Each person on it is a warm start, and a careless tap turns it cold for good.
If you missed the window
On the free plan, or once you have moved past her, the undo is gone. There is no setting that brings a dislike back.
Sometimes she resurfaces anyway. On Majestic, the Likes tab shows the women who have already liked you, and it includes people you disliked in Discover. So if the woman you lost had liked you, she may turn up there. If not, let it go. There are more women on the app than the one you scrolled past, and chasing one lost tap is a poor use of an evening.
Mistaken dislikes come from speed
Almost every accidental dislike happens the same way. You are scrolling fast, half watching something else, and your thumb decides before you do.
Speed hurts in both directions. The habit that makes you dislike a woman you would have liked also makes you like women you have no real interest in. Then you end up with conversations you do not want, and a feed that knows less about your taste than it should.
Slow down enough to read. Look past the first photo, read what she wrote, and ask yourself whether you would actually take her out. It takes a few seconds longer per person, and it saves you both kinds of mistake.
A better way to go through Discover
A simple routine removes most accidental dislikes.
Open Discover when you can give it your attention, not while you are cooking or half watching a match. Look at her first photo, then the rest of her photos, then what she wrote, and only decide after all three. If you catch yourself tapping before you have read a word, put the phone down for the night.
Stop while you still care. The last ten minutes of a long session are where the careless taps happen, in both directions. Two short, focused sessions will serve you better than one long one where your thumb takes over.
And when you do tap the wrong way, remember the rule. Undo first, then carry on.
Fewer, better likes lead to better matches
a dating coach has long argued for being selective. He believes many apps read a man who likes everyone as less choosy, and that being pickier can lead an app to show you better options. It is his read rather than a published rule, but it matches common sense.
It also changes what happens after you connect. When you only like women you genuinely want to take out, you have something real to say to each of them. Your first line stops being the same generic opener sent to twenty people.
A good test is to like the women you would be pleased to hear from today, and nobody else. If you would not answer her first line with real interest, do not like her just to see what happens.
Is Majestic worth it for undo alone?
Probably not. The undo is a small safety net, and it only catches your last tap.
My general advice on paid features is to test them. If something is fairly cheap, try it, see whether it makes a real difference to your results, and drop it if it does not. Judge Majestic on everything it gives you, not on one button.
And if you find yourself reaching for undo often, the fix is not a paid feature. It is scrolling slower.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.