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The Worst Mistake You’re Making With Women

The worst mistake most men make with women is not being “too nice” or “too direct.” It’s making the interaction about getting a result instead of creating a…

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The Ups and Downs of Getting Good With Women
Getting good with girls is not a straight line. You will have weeks where everything clicks, then one awkward conversation will make you feel like you learned…
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The Two Sides
Most dating problems aren’t about a lack of confidence. They’re about having too much of one side and not enough of the other.
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How to Protect Your Time and Stay Grounded in Dating
Most men lose in dating by wasting time and energy before real interest is earned.
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How to Stop Seeking Approval From Women
The fastest way to get calmer, more attractive, and less needy around women is to stop treating every interaction like a referendum on your worth.
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The Stuck Man Mentality
A lot of men think they have a dating problem when they really have a motion problem. The issue isn’t that women are impossible.
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The Strategy Behind Dating the Hottest Women
Dating the hottest women is not about learning tricks. It’s about becoming the kind of man who doesn’t need tricks.
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The Social Trap Most Ambitious Men Fall Into
A lot of ambitious men aren’t lonely because they lack social skills. They’re lonely because they’ve trained themselves to treat people like a side project.
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The Seductive Power of Shy
Shyness is not the same as weakness. In the right dose, it can make a man feel more real, more thoughtful, and a lot more interesting than the guy who talks…
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The Idea Power of Embracing Fear
The guys who do best with dating are not the ones who never feel fear. They’re the ones who stop treating fear like a stop sign.
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The Player Paradox: Why You Get Worse With Women as You Get Better
The weirdest thing about becoming more attractive is that dating can feel harder, not easier.
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The Meaning of Grit
Grit is not “never feeling discouraged.” It’s what you do when dating stops rewarding effort immediately, which is most of the time.
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The Legend of California Pimp, Part II
Most men think dating gets easier when they become more “interesting.” Usually it gets easier when they stop acting like a guy who needs permission to exist.
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The Dunning-Kruger Effect and Self-Improvement
The fastest way to sabotage your dating life is to become proud of advice you have not yet tested.
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The Bisa Method: How to Turn Dreams Into Reality
Most dating problems aren’t really dating problems. They’re execution problems dressed up as bad luck.
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The Best Defense Is... No Defense
Most men don’t get rejected because they’re unattractive. They get rejected because they act like every interaction is a courtroom and they’re already on trial.
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The Art of Having Longer Conversations With Women
Most short conversations don’t die because you “ran out of things to say.” They die because the other person never got a reason to stay engaged.
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The 5 Big Differences Between Naturals and PUAs
The biggest difference between men who are naturally good with women and men who study pickup is not confidence. It’s calibration.

Mindset

The Worst Mistake You’re Making With Women

The Ups and Downs of Getting Good With Women

The Two Sides

How to Protect Your Time and Stay Grounded in Dating

How to Stop Seeking Approval From Women

The Stuck Man Mentality

The Strategy Behind Dating the Hottest Women

The Social Trap Most Ambitious Men Fall Into

The Seductive Power of Shy

The Idea Power of Embracing Fear

The Player Paradox: Why You Get Worse With Women as You Get Better

The Meaning of Grit

The Legend of California Pimp, Part II

The Dunning-Kruger Effect and Self-Improvement

The Bisa Method: How to Turn Dreams Into Reality

The Best Defense Is... No Defense

The Art of Having Longer Conversations With Women

The 5 Big Differences Between Naturals and PUAs