Tinder gives two reasons. Some of those people may be using Passport to look at your current location. And if you are a subscriber who has just visited another city, you may keep seeing people from there for a short time after changing location. The other reason is your Discovery Settings. Tinder sometimes shows people slightly outside your preferences, and a toggle below the Maximum Distance slider controls that.
Passport visitors looking at your city
Some of the distant people you see have chosen to look at your area. Tinder says some of them may be using Passport to view your current location. That is how a woman who lives a long way away can turn up next to women from your own neighborhood.
This is often a good sign rather than a nuisance. Someone who points Passport at your city is often planning a trip there, thinking about a move, or simply curious. If she likes the look of you, the question is timing, not distance.
The city you just left
If you are a subscriber and you visited another city, Tinder says you may keep seeing people from there for a short time after changing location. So a weekend away can leave a trail of cards from the place you just left.
This clears up on its own. Give it a little time after you get home, and your stack goes back to the people around you.
The toggle under Maximum Distance
The second reason sits in your settings. Tinder sometimes shows people slightly outside your preferences. A toggle below the Maximum Distance slider controls whether it can.
To check it, go to Settings and scroll to Discovery. Find the Maximum Distance slider and look at the toggle beneath it. If you want Tinder to stay strictly inside your radius, set the toggle so it cannot reach past it. If you are happy to see the occasional person a little farther out, leave it as it is.
Which you choose depends on how far you would really travel for a first drink. If the honest answer is not far, lock it. In a small town, a strict radius can run dry quickly, so a little flexibility often serves you better.
Say where you live in your bio
Seeing faraway people is a reminder that faraway people can see you too, including visitors browsing your city before a trip. Your page should make it easy for anyone to understand where you actually are.
One plain line in your bio does it. Name the neighborhood you live in, or the part of town where you spend your evenings. It saves a woman in another city from a week of chatting with a man she cannot see for months. It also tells a local woman at a glance that a drink with you is easy to arrange.
Your photos can back it up. A shot in a spot people recognize, like a well-known park or a bar everyone in town knows, carries the same message without spelling it out.
When a visitor likes you
If you match with someone who is using Passport, sort out the timing early. Ask when she is coming and for how long. If the dates line up, suggest a specific evening while she is in town. If they do not, say so kindly and let it go.
A short window is not a problem when you are clear about it. Visitors usually have a few free evenings and are open to plans. What loses them is a man who chats warmly for a week and never names a day.
Keep your attention on the women nearby
The distant cards are a side issue. Most of your results still come from women within easy reach, and those depend on what they see when your card comes up.
Put a clear, recent photo of your face first. Make sure the rest show you in different places and different clothes. Write a bio with one specific detail she can picture and ask about, and mention where you are based. Then, when you match with someone close by, get to a plan while the conversation is still easy.
The short answer
Tinder's two reasons cover three situations. Some faraway people are using Passport to look at your location. If you are a subscriber who just changed location, you can see the old city for a short while. And the toggle under Maximum Distance can let the app reach past your radius. Check that toggle, give a trip time to clear, and make your bio say plainly where you live.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.