There is no opening day. Raya's listing says membership is available by application only and that its global committee reviews applications on an ongoing basis. You do not wait for a window to open. You apply whenever you like, and the committee gets to you in its own time.

Why there is no date to wait for

Men often picture a list that closes and reopens, like a restaurant that takes bookings once a month. Raya does not describe anything like that.

The committee is reviewing as applications arrive, so the line moves all the time and nobody announces a start. The practical result is simple. Waiting for the right moment to apply gains you nothing, because the review is already running. Every week you hold off is a week your application is not in it.

How long the review takes

The listing says review can range from days to months, depending on a number of factors. It does not say which factors, and it does not give a target date.

Take that at face value. A fast answer and a slow answer are both normal, and neither tells you much about the decision. If you hear back quickly, good. If a few weeks pass with nothing, that is inside the range Raya itself describes, not a sign that something went wrong.

If you want the longer version of the timing question, the article on how long a Raya application takes to get a decision goes into it. What this one answers is narrower: there is no date, so plan around that.

What you can and cannot do to move things along

You cannot call a day when Raya opens, and you cannot get a status screen from the listing, which describes none. What you control is the application itself.

Raya sells an optional in-app purchase called Skip the Wait. Read what it covers inside the app before you spend anything, and be clear with yourself about what you are buying: a place in a review, not a verdict. A man who pays to be looked at and then gets a no has spent money and learned the same thing he would have learned for free.

The sounder move is to put your effort into the part that decides the outcome. Use photos that show your face and an ordinary good day, and put in the details a real person would. a dating coach gives the same advice for any app: a clear face first, the mirror selfie out, and a set that tells her what a week with you looks like.

What happens if you are accepted

Accepted members choose a membership length. That choice only appears after acceptance, so you cannot pick a plan to improve your odds. The membership comes after the decision, not before it.

When the answer arrives, you will want to be ready to use it. Look at your photos again, have a first message in mind, and decide how many evenings a week you are willing to give it.

Do not put your dating life on hold

This is where most men make the real mistake.

They apply, then stop using the other apps while they wait. If the answer takes a month, that is a month without matches, messages or dates, spent on an outcome nobody can predict.

Keep the other apps going. Hinge, Bumble or whichever one gives you real conversations will do more for you in the next four weeks than a pending application can. a dating coach's advice on apps is to pick the one where people actually want to date and to spend your effort there, since pretty good game with the right people beats very good game on an app full of fake profiles. Raya, when it comes, is an addition to your week and not a replacement for it.

A routine for the wait

Put the waiting time to work.

  1. Apply with your best honest photos.
  2. Write down the three or four conversations you want to have more of on the apps you already use.
  3. Message at the same steady pace you would use if Raya did not exist.
  4. When Raya replies, add it. Do not stop the others.

A steady habit is also the thing that makes the first weeks on Raya go well. A man who has had a month of real conversations arrives on the app knowing how to start one, and that shows in the first message.

So when should you apply

Now, if you want to be on it. The application is open to you whenever you decide to submit, the review is continuous, and your life on the other apps carries on in the meantime.

If you are unsure whether you want Raya at all, apply anyway and decide when there is an answer. Either way the question you started with has a clean reply: it does not open on a date, and the decision comes when the committee gets to you.