Written answers are only one kind. Besides the usual text prompts, Hinge offers Photo Prompts, Video Prompts, Voice Prompts and Prompt Polls, and it describes its prompts as a way to show who you are through text, photos, video, voice and polls. Together they do the job a bio does on other apps, so the mix you choose shapes how she reads you.
Written prompt answers
This is the format every man knows. You pick a question from Hinge's list and write your answer underneath it.
Hinge shows only a few written answers at a time, but you can swap them as often as you like. To edit one, tap the Photo Icon, tap the Pencil Icon next to your profile picture, and tap an answer to change the text. To change the question itself, tap the Pencil Icon beside that prompt, narrow the list by category if you want, and tap into the one you like.
Written answers carry most of the weight on a Hinge page. a dating coach's warning about them is that most men's answers are just facts, and facts give her nothing to react to. Every other format below exists partly to fix that.
Choosing the question matters as much as writing the answer. A prompt that only asks for a fact, like your favorite book, gets a fact back. Pick questions that let you tell a short story or take a side on something small, because those give her a reason to reply.
Photo Prompts
A Photo Prompt pairs a prompt with one of your photos instead of a written answer. Tap the Pencil Icon, tap any one of your photos, then tap Select a Prompt.
Hinge says Photo Prompts are entirely optional. They are worth using when a photo needs context to land. A picture of you on a mountain is fine. The same picture under a prompt about the dumbest thing you have done for a view becomes a story she can ask about.
Video Prompts
A Video Prompt pairs a prompt with a short video you record in the app. In the editor, tap the box under Video Prompt, pick or change the prompt at the bottom of the screen, then press and hold the white button to record. Tap Redo or the X if you want another take, and tap the Purple Arrow when you are happy.
Video shows her things nothing else can: how you move, how you sound, and whether you seem at ease. That cuts both ways. A relaxed clip of you laughing at your own dog does more than any line you could write. A stiff clip read off a script does real damage, so if you cannot make one you like, leave the slot empty.
Voice Prompts
A Voice Prompt lets her hear you answer instead of reading you. Hinge lists voice as one of the ways its prompts let you show who you are.
Your voice is a big part of attraction in person, and on an app she never hears it until a call or a date. A good voice answer closes that gap early. Keep it short, speak the way you talk to a friend, and record it somewhere quiet. a dating coach tells men to treat every feature an app adds as something to test rather than ignore, and voice is a good one to try.
Prompt Polls
A Prompt Poll is a prompt with several answers instead of one. Hinge added it so that the women looking at your page can choose which answer they want to respond to, and they can send a Like or a Rose to a specific option.
To add one, open the editor, tap the box under Prompt Poll, change the prompt with the Pencil Icon if you want a different question, and type your answers. The point of a poll is to make the first comment easy. Every option should be something she could pick and then tease you about.
A poll that is really a survey wastes the slot. A list of sports teams or coffee orders tells her nothing about you. Options that each describe a plan, a habit or a strong opinion of yours give her a choice that says something about both of you.
Picking the mix for your page
You do not need every format. You need each one you use to show something the others do not.
A strong page usually reads like one man from a few angles. The written answers carry your opinions and your sense of humor. A Video or Voice Prompt shows your energy. A poll gives her a low-effort way in. A Photo Prompt turns one good picture into a small story.
Start with the written answers, because they matter most, then add one other format and watch what women comment on. Change one thing at a time so you know which change made the difference. That is a dating coach's approach to any dating page: try a change, keep it if it gets a better response, and drop it if it does not.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.