Photo Tips is a Tinder feature that reviews your profile photos and data and offers personalized suggestions to add or replace photos. It looks at your photos as a set, checking the variety of activities and poses and whether any are too similar. It also uses your bio and Interests to keep its suggestions relevant. It is available on Android and iOS in select markets, and you will not get new suggestions until you add, replace or remove a photo.
What the suggestions are telling you
Photo Tips is not grading each photo on its own. It is looking at the whole set and asking whether it tells her enough.
Tinder gives two examples of what it might suggest: adding a photo of you doing a hobby, or swapping out one of several similar selfies. Both point at the same idea. A good set shows different sides of you. A weak one shows the same side over and over.
When you get a suggestion, read it as a note about the set rather than a verdict on one photo. It is telling you what is missing from the story, or which part of the story is repeating.
Too many similar shots
This is the most common problem in men's photos, and it is easy to miss when you are the one choosing.
Five selfies from the same angle, in the same light, in the same shirt, look like one afternoon. To her, one afternoon looks like a man who took all his photos at once because nobody else ever takes any of him. Each extra near-identical selfie adds nothing she did not already learn from the first.
If Photo Tips flags your set for this, take it seriously. Keep the best of the similar shots and replace the rest with photos that show something new: a different place, different clothes, a different expression.
The hobby photo it asks for
The hobby suggestion is a good one, with one caveat. The photo should show you actually doing the thing, and doing it with some ease.
A photo of you on a bike on a mountain trail says more than any line in your bio about liking the outdoors. It shows her how you spend a Saturday. It also gives her something easy to ask about.
The caveat is that a hobby photo is still a photo of you. If you are a tiny figure far away on a climbing wall, she learns you climb but not what you look like. Get close enough that your face is visible, or make sure your other photos cover that.
When to ignore a suggestion
Photo Tips is a useful nudge, not an order. It is working from what it can see, which is your photos, bio and Interests. It has no way to tell which clothes you actually wear, or that one shot is from a wedding six years ago.
So check each suggestion against one question: would this make the set a more honest picture of my life? If yes, follow it. If a suggestion would push you to add a photo of a hobby you have given up, or to swap a true photo for a flattering but misleading one, skip it. She will compare the man on the screen to the man at the table.
How to get fresh suggestions
Tinder says you will not get new suggestions until you add, replace or remove a photo. So the feature works best in steps.
Make one change, based on the suggestion that seems most useful. Then look at what Photo Tips says about the new set. Working one change at a time also tells you which change mattered, instead of rebuilding the whole set and never knowing what helped.
Make the bio and About Me section agree with the photos
Photo Tips uses your bio and Interests to shape its suggestions, which is a reminder that the whole page is read together.
If your Interests say cooking and travel, your photos should include at least one of each. If your bio and About Me section describe a man who is out most weekends, the set should not be five photos taken at home. When words and photos say the same thing, she believes both. When they disagree, she believes neither.
Build a set that makes you stand out
The aim is not a set that pleases a tool. It is a set that makes her want to meet you.
That usually means one clear, recent photo of your face first, then a few more that each show something different: somewhere you spend time, something you do, people you spend it with. Use Photo Tips to spot what is missing or repeated. Then fill the gaps with real photos, ideally taken by a friend in daylight, and keep only the ones where you look like yourself on a good day.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.