Discover is a Bumble tab that shows you a selection of members who share your interests, want the same thing from dating, and have communities in common with you. Bumble adds a fresh selection there every day at 9am. From any woman in it you can tap Like, send a Note or a SuperSwipe, or tap Not for me.
When Discover refreshes
Bumble says it suggests a fresh set of people in the Discover tab every day at 9am. So if you open it at night and it feels thin, the next batch comes in the morning.
Inside the tab there is also a section called Recommended for you. Bumble uses it to highlight a small handful of people it thinks would be an extra special match for you. It picks them based on the information you have added about yourself and on who you have matched with before.
How Bumble decides who shows up
The whole tab is built on overlap. Bumble describes the people in it as those who like what you like and want what you want: similar interests, the same dating goals, and communities in common.
That means the information you give Bumble decides what Discover can do for you. Bumble says the details you add to your profile help people find you from Discover. It also advises completing your profile and showing the real you if you want the most out of the tab.
So fill in your interests honestly and set your dating intentions to what you actually want. A man who picks a pile of random interest badges gets paired up on things he does not care about. A man who picks the three he would happily talk about for an hour gets a Discover tab full of easy first messages.
What you can do from each card
Open a woman's page in Discover and you have four choices.
Tap Like if you are interested. As anywhere on Bumble, if you both like each other, you match.
Send a Note if something specific caught your eye. A Note is a short message you send before matching, about a picture, a prompt answer or an interest you share.
Send a SuperSwipe if you want her to know you are especially interested. Bumble's plan page says she will see a clear indication that you liked her more than usual.
Tap Not for me if you would rather pass.
How it differs from the People tab
The People tab is where you swipe through women who fit the preferences you set, such as age, distance and the rest of your filters. It is broad by design.
Discover is narrower and more hand-picked. It starts from what you have in common. That makes it the better place to look when you want a woman you can actually talk to, rather than just another face that fits your filters.
Most men use both. Swipe in People for volume, and check Discover once a day for the women where the first message nearly writes itself.
How to use it well
The overlap is the point, so use it. If you are both into trail running, ask which route she runs most. If you share a love of a particular band, ask which album she would defend to the end. A shared interest turns a cold opener into a warm one.
Be careful with SuperSwipes, even here. a dating coach is not a fan of them. He has found they can come across as desperate. They also hand her the sense that you picked her out as special, which puts her above you before you have exchanged a word. Keep them for the rare woman who gave you a concrete reason.
Notes are often the better tool in Discover. You already know what you have in common, so say something about it. A sentence gives her something to answer. A SuperSwipe only gives her a signal.
What Discover leaves up to you
Discover puts you in front of women who share your interests. The decision is still hers, and she makes it on how you come across.
If your pictures are dark, dated or all from one afternoon, a shared interest will not carry you. If what you wrote about yourself is thin, she has nothing to go on. Fix those first, and Discover becomes one of the easiest places on Bumble to start a good conversation.
After a match, you each get one opening message and three days to send it. Lead with the thing you have in common, keep it brief, and once you have traded a few good lines, ask her out for a drink.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.