MeetMe Live is the live video side of MeetMe. People broadcast themselves, viewers watch, and viewers can send virtual gifts bought with MeetMe Credits. It runs in the iPhone app, the Android app and on the MeetMe website. To stream yourself, press the Go Live button in the Live section of the app and confirm you want to start. For a man on the dating app who wants matches and replies to his messages, it is a different activity from writing to a woman, and it rewards different things.
What it is and where it runs
MeetMe's help center describes Live as a feature set, not a single button. Beyond watching and streaming, it covers subscribing to a streamer, becoming a guest in someone's stream, battles, challenges, and converting Diamonds to Credits or cash rewards.
Most of those are about the people who stream, not the people who watch. Battles and challenges are streamer activities, and Diamonds sit on the streamer's side of the gift system. If you stay on the watching side, the part you will meet most is the gift.
How to go live
The steps are short. Open the Live section, press Go Live, and confirm you want to start streaming. Nothing in MeetMe's description asks for more than that.
Short steps do not make it a good idea for a man trying to meet someone. A stream is a performance in front of strangers. If you have never done it, you are learning a new skill in public, and you are doing it in a room that may be full of people who came for entertainment, not for a date.
Credits and gifts
Credits are MeetMe's virtual currency. The help center describes them as used to buy gifts for streamers in Live. MeetMe's terms define a virtual gift as a live animation you can trigger in a streamer's stream within the Live network using Credits.
So the money flows from the viewer to the streamer. A gift is a way of saying that you like what someone is doing on screen. It is not a message addressed to a woman near you, and it does not start a conversation about a drink on Friday.
Does it help a man date
On its face, not much. A woman in a stream is talking to a crowd, reading comments and thanking the people who send gifts. A man who sends a gift is joining that crowd, and he is one name among many.
a dating coach's approach to any app is to count results. How many real conversations did you start, how many got an answer, and how many became a plan? Run that count on Live and the honest answer for most men will be close to zero. Time spent watching and tipping is time not spent writing a good first message to a woman who has already shown interest in meeting someone.
There is a more useful way to think about it. The same logic that applies to messaging applies here: she responds to something specific and easy to answer. A generic comment in a crowded chat is the opposite of that, and a gift is a louder version of the same anonymous gesture.
The safety tools
MeetMe's help center has pages on how to report someone in Live and how to block someone in Live. Know where they are before you need them.
If a streamer or another viewer pushes you toward spending, or steers you from the public stream into a private exchange, treat that as a signal to stop. A woman who wants to meet you does not need Credits first. The same caution applies to any request for money or gifts from someone you have not met in person.
When it makes sense
Live makes sense for a man who enjoys it as entertainment and understands what he is paying for. If you like watching streams, set a limit on Credits before you open the app, the way you would set a limit for a night out.
It makes little sense as a dating plan. The apps and features built around matching put you in front of women who opened them to meet someone, and a message from you can reach them directly. If you are on MeetMe to date, spend your time in the chat and on the page women see first, and treat Live as a side room.
What to do with the time instead
Get your photos right, send a first message that mentions one real detail, and move a promising conversation toward a call and then a date within a few messages. That sequence is what produces dates. Streams produce an audience.
If you do not want to build this on your own, a service can set up and run your online dating for you. Photos are checked by hand and messages are written for you, so your evenings go to the dates themselves.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.