Boo is a real dating app, not a scam, and it is about as safe as other dating apps, which means safe enough if you use sense. It starts from a personality test, asks you to verify before you can chat, and has the same risks as anywhere else: fake profiles, people who move you off the app fast, and requests for money. No app can promise you that every person on it is who they say.
What legit means here
When men ask whether an app is legit, they usually mean two things. Is the app itself real and honest about what it does, and are the people on it real?
On the first, Boo does what it says. You take a free personality test, you see people it suggests, and you can chat with your matches at no cost. It does not hide the point of the product from you.
On the second, nobody can vouch for every person on any app, Boo included. Some profiles on every dating app are fake, and some people are not what they claim. That is why the rest of this article is about what you do, not what the app promises.
What Boo does for safety
Before you can chat, Boo asks you to verify, and a blue checkmark appears beside your username when you pass. That puts a small step in front of the people who would rather not show their face.
It is a real filter, and it is not a background check. Verification tells you that the person passed a check on the app. It does not tell you her history, her job, or her intentions, and it does not tell you anything about a man on the other end who got through.
The honest way to read a checkmark is as one signal among several.
The ordinary risks
The same warnings apply on Boo as on any dating app, and most of them come down to timing and money.
A match who wants to leave the app within a few messages, for a private chat or another service, deserves caution. So does someone who tells you she loves you after a few days, or whose story keeps changing. Anyone who asks you for money, for any reason, is not a match, and you should end the chat and report the profile.
Women get the worst of this. You are also a target as a man, though, and plenty of men lose money to someone who was never real.
How to protect yourself
Keep the basics private until you trust her: your full name, home address, workplace and anything financial. A first name and a general area are enough for a first date.
Look at her photos for ones that seem too polished, one set only, or no group shots. A quick reverse image search on a photo is a reasonable check, and a video call before meeting is a better one. If she will not do either, ask yourself why.
Meet in a public place, tell a friend where you are, and arrange your own way home. A first date is a coffee or a drink, and it should feel easy to leave.
Is it worth using
Safe and worth your time are different questions. Boo publishes no success rate for men, and how many women use it near you is the one thing no article can tell you.
You can find out in a week. Go through a day's suggestions and count how many are women in your age range you would take out. If the number is small every day, the pool is thin where you live, and that is a fact about the place, not about you.
If you try it, fix your photos first. A clear face in daylight and a first line that refers to something on her page matter far more than the personality test. Another article on this site covers how Boo works for men in more detail.
The short version
Boo is legit and no riskier than most dating apps. Verify, keep your details private, meet in public, and treat any request for money as the end of the conversation. Then judge the app by what it gets you in two weeks, not by what the internet says about it.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.