Inner Circle is free to download and register, and Standard Membership is free and includes invites to its events. To connect with members directly, meaning to chat, match and plan dates, you need Full Membership, which is a paid subscription. Inner Circle's join guide says some features, including messaging, require a subscription, and members pay monthly or annual fees.
What you get for free
Three things cost nothing: downloading the app, registering, and Standard Membership. Standard includes invites to Inner Circle's events.
So you can join, go through the application and take part in the events side of Inner Circle without paying. What you cannot do on the free tier is the part most men join for, which is talking to members directly.
What Full Membership adds
Full Membership is what lets you connect with members directly. Inner Circle describes it as the tier where you can chat, match and plan dates.
Its join guide is plain that some features, messaging included, need a subscription. In practice, Standard lets you look around and go to events, while Full is where you start the conversations that lead to dates.
Inner Circle's homepage says members pay monthly or annual fees. The price is whatever the app shows you when you subscribe, and prices change, so check it there rather than trusting a figure you read somewhere else.
The events on Standard Membership
It is easy to dismiss the free tier as a trial. The event invites make it more than that.
An event puts you in a room with real people, where your manner, your humor and how easy you are to talk to count for more than any photo. For a man who is good company but does not photograph well, that is a real edge. It also gives you a feel for the kind of people using the app before you spend anything.
Go to an event the way you would go to a good party. Talk to plenty of people rather than attaching yourself to one, and do not treat every conversation as an audition. The men who enjoy these evenings tend to do best at them, because relaxed company is attractive and nervous hovering is not.
If you like the crowd you find there, that is useful information. It gives you a sense of the kind of people you would be writing to if you paid, which is a far better basis for the decision than a sales page.
When paying for dating apps is worth it
Plenty of men refuse to pay for any dating app on principle, as if paying were needy. That is the wrong way to look at it. Dating apps are businesses, and they build their paid tiers to keep paying members happy. When your time is worth something, paying to save it can be the smart call.
The feature most worth paying for, on almost any app, is the ability to choose who you talk to and write to them yourself, instead of waiting for the app to decide for you. On Inner Circle, that is exactly what Full Membership sells.
There is one condition. Paid features multiply the results you already get. They rarely rescue a man who gets none. Make sure your application is accepted and strong first: clear, recent photos, a groomed look and every field filled in. Then pay, and let the subscription work on something worth multiplying.
Monthly or annual
Inner Circle members pay monthly or annual fees. Which one suits you depends on how sure you are.
If you are new to the app, a shorter commitment lets you test it before you lock anything in. Use it properly for a month, count the conversations that turned into dates, and decide from real results. If it clearly works for you, a longer plan is a reasonable choice. Committing for a year to an app you have never tried is paying for a hope.
Get the most out of a paid month
A subscription only pays off if you use it properly.
Open the app every day. Write to women you are genuinely interested in, with something specific to what they shared rather than a bare hello. Reply to your matches the same day. Suggest a drink while the conversation still has energy, then ask for her number to sort out the details. A paid month spent this way can fill your calendar. A paid month spent browsing is just a bill.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.