I felt like having some fun so I created a comic as well as a subdomain to host comics on

If you create a comic for your dating profile, use a real moment.

Maybe you once burned pasta so badly that you ate cereal for dinner. Maybe your cat steals one sock from every laundry load. Maybe you tried to fix a shelf and ended up with three extra screws.

Those moments give you something to draw.

Do not make the comic about how attractive, clever, or desirable you are. A joke about your own small mistake works better than a speech about your good traits.

For example:

Panel one: You hold a box of pasta.
Panel two: Smoke fills the kitchen.
Panel three: You eat cereal from a mixing bowl.

The joke takes five seconds to understand. It also gives her an easy question to ask:

“How did you burn pasta?”

Now you have a real conversation.

Keep the drawing simple. Stick figures work. A clean sketch on a piece of paper can feel warmer than a polished cartoon made to impress strangers.

A comic should add to your profile. It should not replace your photos or your real life.

Use clear photos first. Show your face, your clothes, and the places you spend time. Then add one comic if it brings something new.

A good comic might show:

• The strange sandwich you make after lifting weights.
• Your failed attempt to teach your dog a trick.
• The rule your friends follow when they visit your kitchen.
• The small habit that makes your apartment feel like home.

A bad comic turns into a long speech. You may think six panels explain your humor. A woman may see six panels that ask her to study your profile.

Keep it short. One joke is enough.

You also need to make sure the joke works without a long note below it. If you write three paragraphs to explain the drawing, the drawing did not do its job.

If you create a small site to host your comics, give it one clear job. Let her view your drawings without opening a large file or digging through a messy folder.

Use a short web address that you can say out loud. Keep the page easy to read on a phone. Put the newest comic near the top. Use large images and short captions.

Do not build a huge site filled with every sketch you have made since school. A woman does not need to see thirty versions of the same joke about your cat.

Pick three or four drawings that show different sides of your life. One can be silly. One can show a hobby. One can show a small failure. One can show the kind of humor you use with friends.

Your site should look like a place you enjoy making things. It should not look like a shrine to your own cleverness.

Do not add a page about how people should praise your work. Do not write a long bio about your creative vision. Let the drawings carry most of the weight.

Do not send the comic as your first message to a woman who has never spoken with you. She has no reason to care about your website yet.

Start with something from her profile. If she has a photo at a food market, ask which food she would buy again. If she mentions a dog, ask what trouble the dog causes at home.

After a few messages, your comic can fit into the conversation.

Suppose she says she always burns toast. You can write:

“Good. I made a comic about a worse kitchen mistake. I’ll send it if you want a quick laugh.”

If she says yes, send one link. Do not send five links and ask her to pick a favorite.

Then return to the conversation. Ask what happened with the toast. Ask what she cooks when she has little time. The comic is a door into a talk. It is not the whole room.

If she does not respond to the link, leave it alone. Do not ask whether she liked it. Do not send another drawing to force a reply. Your job is to share something fun, not to make her grade your work.

Creative work can make you seem interesting, but it cannot replace a real meeting.

A woman still needs to see how you speak, listen, and act when plans change. She needs to know whether you can sit across from her without performing every minute.

Use the comic to make the first meeting easier. If one drawing is about a terrible sandwich, pick a place that serves good food. If one is about your failed dog training, tell her the full story over coffee.

Do not spend the whole meeting showing her your site. Talk about the food in front of you. Notice what makes her laugh. Let her tell a story that has nothing to do with your comic.

The best result is simple. She sees the drawing, smiles, and gets a small piece of your life. Then she meets the man who made it.