Facebook Dating lets you add up to 12 photos and prompts to your Dating profile. At least one of the photos has to be of you with your face visible. You can change the order any time by tapping and holding a photo or prompt and moving it to the spot you want.

What Facebook requires

The rules are short. Facebook's wording is up to 12 photos and prompts, which means you plan the photos and the prompts as one set rather than filling every slot with pictures first.

The one hard requirement is a photo of you with your face showing. A profile of sunsets, your dog, and a group shot from a distance does not meet it, and it would not get you far even if it did.

Reordering is simple. Tap and hold any photo or prompt, then drag it where you want it to sit.

Twelve is a ceiling, not a target

Men see a big number and assume more is better. It is not.

Every photo you add is one more chance for her to find a reason to pass. A strong set of six can be dragged down by three weak ones added because the slots were empty. She does not average your photos. She tends to remember the worst one.

A useful rule from people who build dating profiles for a living is to launch with around six strong photos and add more only when you have more strong ones. Five good photos beat ten average photos every time.

Photos and prompt answers work as a pair

Your photos do most of the work. A woman decides within a few seconds whether she wants to know more, and she decides mostly on what she sees.

Prompts earn their place once the photos have done their job. When she likes what she sees, a good prompt answer gives her a reason to write to you and something easy to write about. A dull one wastes that interest.

So spend your slots in that order. Get the photos right first. Then add two or three prompt answers that sound like a real person with a sense of humor, not a list of adjectives.

How to order the set

Put your clearest face photo first, with just you in it. It is the photo that decides whether she looks at the rest.

Put a full-length photo early, second or third. She wants to know your build and how you carry yourself, and hiding it makes her wonder why.

After that, alternate. A photo of you doing something you enjoy, then a prompt answer, then a social photo where you are easy to find, then another prompt. Breaking up the photos with prompts keeps her reading instead of flicking through a wall of pictures.

Change settings and outfits across the set. The same shirt in every photo makes the whole profile look like it was shot in one sitting.

What to leave out

Leave out anything that makes her work to find you. That means group shots where you are one of six similar men, sunglasses in more than one photo, and anything taken from so far away that your face is a dot.

Leave out old photos. If you had more hair or less weight three years ago, she will meet the man you are today, and the gap costs you trust in the first minute.

Leave out the flexing. A shirtless mirror selfie or a close-up of a car tells her you think she needs convincing.

Leave out photos where you stand close to one woman who is not obviously a sister or a friend in a group. She will wonder who that is, and a Dating profile is a bad place to make her wonder. A photo with a mixed group of friends laughing does the social part far better.

Test one change at a time

The best profiles are rarely right on the first try. They get better through small, careful changes.

When you swap something, swap one photo, then give it time before you judge it. If you change four things at once and results improve, you have no idea which change did it. Keep a simple note of how many likes and good conversations you get before and after each change.

Over a few rounds, you end up with a set where every slot has earned its place, which matters far more than whether you used all 12.