Luxy says a dedicated team reviews every new account within 24 hours. The team looks mainly at your bio, your occupation and your photos. When it is done, Luxy notifies you of the outcome. It is either full access or partial access, and partial access lets you improve what you submitted before a later review.
What the team looks at
Luxy names the three things the review focuses on: your bio, your occupation and your photos.
That list is useful because it tells you where to spend your effort. The review is not a personality test. The team wants to see a real, put-together man whose details hang together, and those three sections are where it looks for him.
Full access or partial access
There are two outcomes. Full access means you are in. Partial access means you are not fully in yet, but Luxy lets you optimize your profile for a subsequent review.
Partial access is not a door closing. It is Luxy telling you the application needs work and giving you the chance to do that work. Treat it the way you would treat notes on a draft.
The wait itself is a day at most, which is not long. Use it to look over what you submitted one more time, the way a woman scrolling past would see it.
Getting the bio right
The bio is where most men let themselves down. They either leave it nearly empty or fill it with lines anyone could have written, like loves travel, works hard and plays hard, looking for a partner in crime.
Write something only you could write. Name the real things you do: the climbing gym on Saturday mornings, the restaurant you have been going to for years, the city you fly to for work every month. Specific details read as a real person. Generic ones read as a template.
Keep it short and keep it true. A reviewer, and later a woman, should finish reading with a good sense of your week and at least one thing to ask you about.
Here is the difference in practice. A thin bio says: "Entrepreneur. Love to travel. Looking for someone genuine." A strong one says: "Run a small shipping business, which mostly means early calls with Singapore. Weekends are for sailing badly and cooking well. Losing a long argument with a sourdough starter." The second one is not longer by much. It just sounds like one particular man, and it hands her three easy things to ask about.
What to put under occupation
Say what you do in plain words. "Architect" or "I run two dental practices" beats a vague title that could mean anything.
Do not inflate it. On an app with Luxy's reputation, the temptation is to dress a job up. An occupation that sounds grander than your photos and your bio can support is exactly the kind of mismatch a reviewer notices. It is even worse on a date, when she asks what you actually do all day.
Photos that pass a quick look
Make the first photo a recent one with your face clear. Add a few that show your life, such as a dinner with friends, somewhere you travel or something you do on weekends. Keep them sharp and well lit.
Leave out anything a reviewer would have to squint at. Heavy filters, group shots where you are hard to find and faces hidden behind sunglasses all make the job harder. So do photos that seem to belong to a different man from the one in the bio.
Luxy also recommends verifying your photo, which shows you are real. It is a quick step, and it settles one question before the review starts.
How to use a second review
If you get partial access, change the things the review actually looks at. Rewrite the bio around specifics. Make the occupation plain and honest. Replace your weakest photos, starting with any that are old, dark or blurry.
Change what matters rather than tinkering at the edges. A new comma in the bio will not move a reviewer. A better first photo and a bio that really describes your life might.
Once you have full access
Verify your photo first if you have not already. Luxy's help center says unverified members can send only one message until they are verified, so do it before you like anyone. Otherwise the first good conversation you start will stop after a single line.
Then use the Match page with some care. Like the women you would genuinely be glad to take out, write soon after you match, and open with something about her rather than a generic hello.
The same photos and words that got you through the review are what every woman on Luxy judges you by from here on. An hour spent getting them right before you submit pays for itself many times over in the weeks after.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.