As long as you like. When you turn on Snooze Mode, Bumble gives you four lengths to choose from: 24 hours, 72 hours, a week, or indefinitely. Whichever one you pick, Bumble says you can make yourself visible again at any time by turning Snooze Mode off, so the length you choose is a plan rather than a lock.

Setting the length

You choose the length at the moment you switch Snooze on.

Open your profile, tap the Settings icon and select Snooze Mode. Bumble then asks how long you want to snooze, with the four options above. After that it asks you to pick a status to show your matches, or to stay invisible.

To end the break early, go back to the same place and turn Snooze Mode off.

Pick the length that fits the reason

Four options sounds like a small choice, but each one suits a different kind of break.

24 hours is for a day you want off. A long work day, a wedding, a weekend with friends where you do not want to be half on your phone.

72 hours covers a short trip or a heavy few days. It is long enough to stop checking and short enough that you have not really left.

A week is a proper rest. It suits a holiday, a busy stretch at work, or the point where the apps have started to feel like a chore and your messages have gone flat.

Indefinitely is for when you do not know. The obvious case is that you have met someone and want to see where it goes, with no end date because there should not be one yet.

If you are unsure between two, pick the shorter one. You can always switch Snooze back on when it runs out, and a break that runs longer than you meant tends to turn into drifting away without deciding to.

What happens to your matches while you wait

Whichever length you choose, Bumble describes the same effect on your matches. It says that while you are snoozed you stop making new matches but can keep chatting with the connections you already have. It also warns that any match without an active chat will expire while you are in Snooze Mode.

That fits with Bumble's usual clock. A match expires if neither of you sends a message within 72 hours of matching, so even a 24-hour snooze can run down a match you have not written to yet.

So before you pick any length, open your newest matches and send an opening message to each one you want to keep. The conversations that are already going can carry on while you are away.

The catch with indefinitely

The open-ended option has one trap, and it is money. Bumble states that switching on Snooze does not pause your subscription. Its subscription page adds that a subscription renews automatically unless you cancel it at least 24 hours before the renewal date.

So a man who snoozes indefinitely on Premium, Premium+ or Boost and forgets about it keeps paying for a service he has hidden himself from. If you are choosing no end date, check when your plan renews. On an iPhone that is in the phone's Settings, under your name and Subscriptions. On Android it is in the Google Play Store under Payments and subscriptions. If you paid through Bumble directly, it is under Subscription details in the app.

Then decide on purpose. Cancel if the break is long, and put a reminder in your calendar either way.

If no length feels right

Sometimes a man picks "indefinitely" because what he really means is that he is done. If that is you, Snooze is the wrong tool, and deleting the account is the honest one.

Bumble keeps the two far apart. Snooze keeps the information on your profile and lets you turn it off and be visible again any day. Deleting makes the account no longer viewable on the app, and Bumble says you can still ask to restore it for up to 28 days if you deleted it by accident. After that it begins deleting your personal information. Cancel any subscription before you delete, because Bumble says it may not cancel automatically.

If you are not sure which one you mean, snooze. You can always delete later.

How long a break should really be

Bumble lets you choose any of the four. What works for you is a different question.

A break is for resetting. You want to come back reading women's answers properly instead of skimming, and writing openers with something in them instead of the same line you have sent a hundred times. A few days to a week is a sensible place to start. A snooze that stretches for months with nothing changed at the end of it is not a rest. It is the same results waiting for you on your return.

When you do come back, come back steadily. a dating coach's advice on the apps is that half an hour a day does far more than five hours crammed into one sitting. Switch Snooze off, answer what is waiting, message the new matches, and keep the habit small enough that you will still be doing it next week.