Not directly. Bumble lets you send another member's profile to a friend through Recommend to a friend, but it says members cannot share their own profile links. A friend with a Bumble account can recommend your profile for you. The link only opens inside the Bumble app, and whoever opens it needs an account of their own.
What you can and cannot send
The share option lives on other people's profiles. You tap the share icon at the top right of someone else's page, pick a text, an email or another messaging app, and the link goes out.
Your own page has no such button. Bumble says members cannot share their own profile links, so a man cannot paste his page into a text to a woman he met at a bar. That is a rule of the app, and there is no setting to change it.
How a friend can send yours
Bumble says friends can share your profile for you. A friend who is on Bumble finds your page in the app and uses the same share icon. The link he sends opens your page for the person who receives it.
There is no way to ask Bumble for a recommendation yet. So the only request is the human one: a text to a friend asking him to send it.
What the person who opens it sees
The link opens only inside the Bumble app. If the person does not have an account, she cannot view it, so the link does nothing for someone who has never joined.
Anyone who opens a shared profile also sees that the sender recommended it. That helps you when the sender is a friend she trusts, because the recommendation arrives with a name attached. It also means the link is never anonymous.
Are you told when someone shares you
No. The person being recommended is not notified when the profile is shared. A friend can send your page to someone and you will not see a trace of it.
The same goes in the other direction. If you recommend a woman's profile to your friend, she is not told. Keep that in mind before you send a stranger's page around a group chat.
What she finds when she gets there
The link takes her straight to your page, so your page is the only thing that speaks for you. She sees what any woman sees when you come up while swiping.
That makes the order of your photos matter more than the cleverness of the intro your friend writes. a dating coach says the best photos you can get belong at the front, and that spending real time on the bio is part of the job. He also likes one photo that gives her something easy to ask about, because a woman who likes your page and has nothing to say tends to move on.
Treat the page as something you improve over time. My point is that a first draft is rarely the finished product, and that small improvements add up the same way a business or an investment does.
When sending a profile is a bad idea
A shared link is not a private note. The person who opens it sees who sent it, and the woman on the page is not told it happened. That is fine for a page you are showing a friend. It is a poor choice for a stranger's page dropped into a group chat, because she never agreed to be passed around.
Keep it to cases you could explain to her face. If you would be comfortable saying "I sent your page to my sister because I thought you two would get along," send it. If you would not, leave it alone.
The same test applies to a page sent about you. A friend who forwards yours to the wrong crowd is doing it without your knowledge, so tell him who it is fine to send it to.
If you want to be recommended
Pick one friend who knows you well and who is already on Bumble. Ask him to send your page to a specific woman he knows, and tell him why you think she would like you.
A recommendation from a friend is a better opening than a blind link. Get your own page right first, because the friend can only forward the page that exists.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.