Yes. On Hinge you do not like someone's profile as one block. In Discover you pick one part of it, such as a single photo or one prompt, tap the heart on that part, and confirm with Send Like. Your like is tied to the thing you chose rather than to her page as a whole.

How to do it

  1. Open Discover and look through her page.
  2. Find the photo or prompt you want to react to.
  3. Tap the heart on that photo or prompt.
  4. Confirm with Send Like.

That is the whole mechanic. The interesting part is what it does to the way you approach the app.

Why one part beats the whole page

A like on a whole page says only "I'm interested." A like on one part says what caught you, and that is a much better start.

It gives her something to respond to. If you liked her answer about the worst dinner party she ever hosted, she already knows what the two of you might talk about. A like with no subject leaves her to invent the whole conversation, and most women will not bother.

It also shows you actually read her page. a dating coach keeps his first messages light, short and a little witty, and aimed at something she actually put there. A like pinned to one specific answer is the smallest version of that same habit.

Choosing which part to like

Most men like the best photo. It is the obvious choice, which is exactly the problem.

A woman with a striking photo has probably had it liked all day. Your like on the same picture blends in with everyone else's. It also says you noticed her face and nothing else, which puts you in the crowd of men leading with her looks.

A prompt answer is usually the stronger choice. It tells you something about how she thinks, and it hands you a topic. Pick the answer you would genuinely ask her about over a drink: the opinion you half disagree with, the story you want the end of, the place you have been too.

Sometimes a photo really is the most interesting thing on her page. Maybe it was taken somewhere unusual, or shows her in the middle of doing something. Then liking it works. Just make sure it is the scene you are reacting to, not only how she looks in it.

It works the same way on your side

Every photo and every prompt on your own page can be liked on its own. That changes how you should think about it.

My experience on Hinge is that women often like something on his page first. They pick one of his photos or one of his answers, and the conversation starts from there. So each part of your page is a possible opening, and a weak part is an opening nobody will take.

A page with one great photo and a string of forgettable ones gives her one thing to react to. A page where every slot has something worth a comment gives her a choice of ways in.

On Hinge, your prompts do the job of a bio

On other apps you write one block of text about yourself. On Hinge, coach points out, that job belongs to the prompts. When a man told him Hinge worked far better for him than other apps, My first guess was exactly this. The man was simply better at answering prompts than at writing about himself.

So treat each answer as a conversation starter, not a line in a résumé. A small story beats a claim. "I'm spontaneous" gives her nothing to like. "Booked a flight to Lisbon on a Tuesday night because the tickets were cheap and I'd never been" gives her a place, a decision and a question to ask.

Think about who you want to reach, too. A marketer writes for a particular audience, and so should you. If you want a woman who loves the outdoors, one answer about the trail you walk every Sunday says more than a list of hobbies.

Make every part of yours stand out

Go through your page one slot at a time and ask one question. Could a woman like this and have something to say about it?

A photo of your face in good light, in a place she can recognize, passes. A blurry group shot where she has to work out which one you are fails. A prompt answer with a specific detail passes. A one-word answer, or a joke she has already read on other pages, fails.

Replace the failures before you worry about anything else. Each one you fix is another part of your page a woman can like, and another easy way into a conversation.