Personal 1-on-1 Dating Mentorship

  • Weekly 60-minute calls
  • Unlimited coach messaging
  • Replies within 24 hours

Get better with women. Stop figuring it out alone.

Approach with confidence. Create attraction. Turn interest into dates. Know what to do when you meet someone worth keeping.

Work on your actual approaches, conversations, texts, and dates with a coach who gets to know you, not just the question you brought to one call.

Your own private session every week. Direct answers between calls. Matthew's coaching team and the full training library behind you.

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Program length is agreed on your application call, priced from the 1, 3 and 6-month prices.

See what changes when you have a coach in your corner.

Matthew explains how the program works, what you can bring to your coach, and how the coaching develops as you start getting better.

I was dating consistently and for the first time, I felt like dating was something I could control instead of just hoping for something to happen.
David

You've put time into this.
Let's make it count.

Going out more. Watching another video. Rewriting the message one more time.

You can put in plenty of effort and still struggle with the same part of dating.

Mentorship gives you someone to help identify what's missing, and work on it with you.

  • You see her. Then you talk yourself out of it.Work on the hesitation that keeps stopping you before you've said a word.Build the confidence to start conversations instead of going home wondering what might have happened.

  • You can talk to women. Making it feel romantic is harder.Work on flirting, delivery, and showing interest without forcing the interaction.Learn to recognize the difference between a pleasant conversation and one where there's something more.

  • You get numbers and matches. The dates don't follow.Bring the actual messages.Your coach helps you understand where the conversation changed, what you missed, and what to do differently, not just hand you another line to copy.

  • You get dates. You're not getting what you want from them.Work on conversation, chemistry, reading mutual interest, and moving a promising date forward.Get perspective on the situations you keep replaying after you get home.

  • You've been learning game for years. You're still stuck at the same level.You don't need to start from zero.You need someone who can look at what you're already doing, recognize where your skills are uneven, and help you work on the part that needs attention.

  • You want more choice, or a relationship worth choosing.Build your coaching around what you actually want.That may mean meeting more women, improving the quality of your dates, or navigating a relationship with someone you're excited about.

You don't have to diagnose yourself before you apply. That's part of the work we do together.

Your own coach.
Not another conversation that starts from scratch.

Your coach gets to know your dating life: what you want, what you've tried, and what happens when you put the feedback into practice.

You're not booking an hour, getting advice, and being left to work out the rest.

You have ongoing support for the work between one call and the next.

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A private hour every week, focused on your game.

Bring your approaches, messages, dates, profile, or a situation you're not sure how to handle.

Your coach helps you identify what matters, work through your questions, and decide what to focus on next.

The session is about your dating life, not a lesson delivered to everyone the same way.

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Answers between calls, while the situation still matters.

A conversation goes quiet. A date leaves you confused. Something happens that you didn't cover in your last session.

Send it to your coach.

Unlimited messaging is included, with replies within 24 hours. You don't have to hold every question until your next weekly call.

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Your primary coach, backed by Matthew's team.

Your primary coach knows your history and what you're working toward.

The group chat gives you access to Matthew's coaching team when you need another perspective on approaching, attraction, texting, online dating, or relationships.

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The full training library, with help applying it.

Get access to The Complete Dating System, its ten playbooks, and the article library throughout your program.

Study the material that fits what you're working on. Bring your questions to your coach. Then work on applying it to your own interactions.

The library gives you the teaching. Your coaching helps you put it to use.

A clear focus. A reason to follow through.

Each call ends with something specific to work on.

Your next session starts with what happened when you tried it, including what got in the way when you didn't.

That's the accountability: your plan doesn't disappear when the call ends. It becomes the starting point for the next one.

What men say after working with us

Approaching stopped feeling like a major event.

Meeting women during the day used to feel like this huge event in my head. After enough practice and feedback, it started feeling normal. Now I can see someone I want to meet and just go have the conversation.
Lucas F.San Diego, USA

He could approach. He needed to know what came next.

I could approach women before, but my conversations always seemed to stall. My coach showed me a few patterns I kept repeating, and suddenly I understood why some interactions felt flat and others actually went somewhere.
Owen T.Portland, USA

The weekly call kept him doing the work.

I always knew I needed to take more action, but doing it consistently was another story. Knowing I had a call every week and would actually have to talk about what I did kept me from disappearing for weeks at a time.
Andre B.Houston, USA

His goals changed. The coaching changed with them.

I joined because I wanted to get better with women in general. Eventually I met someone I actually wanted to build something serious with, and the coaching shifted with me. I wasn't just taught how to get dates. I got help with what to do when I found the right person.
Henrik S.Helsinki, Finland

He didn't have to save every question for the next call.

The ability to message my coach between calls has been huge. If a conversation starts going sideways, I don't have to guess for three days. I can send it over, understand what happened, and use the feedback immediately.
Miles D.London, UK

The problem wasn't what he thought it was.

I thought I knew what my problem was, but my coach spotted something completely different in the first couple of calls. Once we fixed that, a lot of the other problems started disappearing too.
Grant W.Denver, USA
Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder and Head Coach

From the co-founder

You bring the effort.Let's make sure it's going into the right things.

I spent far too long learning game the hard way.

I'd go out, try something, and come home wondering what I should have done differently.

Sometimes an interaction went well. Sometimes it went nowhere. Understanding the difference was the difficult part.

So I'd try to fix my opener when the problem might have been my delivery. Think about what to say when I needed to recognize what she was already telling me.

I was putting in the work. But I wasn't always working on the right thing.

That's what a good mentor helps you change.

Someone who looks at your actual situation. Asks the questions you haven't thought to ask. Helps you decide what to work on, and stays involved while you practice it.

After more than half a decade coaching men, that's what I've built this program around.

Not just answering a question and wishing you luck.

Knowing what you're working on. Reviewing what happened. Helping you make the next adjustment as your dating life develops.

You still have to approach. Send the message. Go on the date. Put the feedback to use.

But you don't have to keep doing all of that without knowing whether you're on the right track.

The goal is simple: get much better with women, and build a dating life you're excited about.

For plenty of men, it ends with finding the right woman and never having to approach again.

Let's work on it.

Best,MatthewCo-Founder & Head Coach

Your Mentorship Program

Personal coaching, between-call support, and the training to back it up.

Included

Weekly private coaching

A 60-minute session every week, built around your current questions, sticking points, and progress.

Included

Unlimited coach messaging

Send questions and real situations between calls. Get replies within 24 hours.

Included

Access to Matthew's coaching team

Your primary coach knows your situation. The team is available in your group chat for another perspective.

Included

The full learning library

The Complete Dating System, its ten playbooks, and the article library, included for as long as you're in the program.

Optional

Add in-person training

Add Bootcamp in New York or Miami to work with a coach during real approaches.

Optional

Add done-for-you support

Add AI Photos or Online Dating Concierge to have parts of your online dating handled while you work on your own skills.

Bootcamp and done-for-you services are optional additions, not included in the base Mentorship program.

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We'll discuss the right program length, support, and investment on your application call.

Choose your Mentorship length

Mentorship Program

Personal coaching, between-call support, and the training to back it up.

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Everything included:

  • A 60-minute session every week, built around your current questions, sticking points, and progress.
  • Send questions and real situations between calls. Get replies within 24 hours.
  • Your primary coach knows your situation. The team is available in your group chat for another perspective.
  • The Complete Dating System, its ten playbooks, and the article library, included for as long as you're in the program.
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Frequently asked questions

Who is this program for?

Men who want personal coaching that continues from week to week.

You might be struggling to approach, getting stuck in friendly conversations, losing opportunities over text, or trying to improve dates and relationships.

The starting point can vary. What matters is being willing to bring real situations, take feedback, and put it into practice.

How long does the mentorship run?

The Mentorship Program is $1,500 for 1 month, $4,250 for 3 months, or $8,000 for 6 months, each one payment up front. If you apply instead, the program length is agreed on your application call.

We discuss where you're starting, what you want to work on, and the level of support that makes sense. You'll understand the duration and investment before deciding to enroll.

How often do I meet with my coach?

You have a private 60-minute coaching session every week.

The session focuses on what you've been working on, what happened since the last call, and what to do next.

Can I message my coach between calls?

Yes. Unlimited coach messaging is included, with replies within 24 hours.

Send questions, text conversations, or details from an approach or date. You don't have to wait for your weekly session to raise something important.

Do I get access to Matthew's team of coaches?

Yes. Alongside your primary coach, you have access to Matthew's coaching team in your group chat.

Your primary coach knows your situation and ongoing work. The team gives you access to additional perspectives when they're relevant.

How is this different from buying individual coaching calls?

Individual calls give you private coaching when you choose to book it.

Mentorship gives you a weekly rhythm, between-call messaging, team access, and the learning library. Your coach follows what you're working on and reviews the results with you.

Choose calls for flexible, occasional coaching. Choose Mentorship for ongoing support and accountability.

I've already bought courses or coaching. Why would this be different?

Buying information and putting it into practice are different things.

The question is what was missing last time. Did you have a clear focus? Did you use the material? Did someone review what happened and help you keep going when you got stuck?

Mentorship is built around that continuing work. Your coach gives you a practice focus, answers questions between sessions, and comes back to what happened on the next call.

Tell us about your previous experience on the application call. We'll discuss whether this format addresses what was missing.

Can this help if I already get dates?

Yes. Getting dates doesn't mean every part of your dating life is where you want it.

You may want better conversations, stronger chemistry, more consistency, or help navigating a relationship. The coaching can focus on those areas rather than taking you through basics you already understand.

Do we work only on approaching women?

No. Coaching can cover in-person approaches, flirting, texting, dating apps, dates, social life, and relationships.

What you work on depends on your goals and the situations you bring.

Can I add Bootcamp or done-for-you services?

Yes. Bootcamp adds in-person field coaching. AI Photos and Online Dating Concierge can handle parts of your online dating.

We can discuss those additions alongside Mentorship. You don't need to choose the entire combination before applying.

What about complete beginners?

You don't need to have approached women or worked with a coach before.

Your coach helps you choose a starting point and work on the skills you need first.

What about experienced men?

Bring the situations you're struggling to improve, not just the parts you already do well.

Coaching can focus on recurring sticking points, more advanced conversations, dating decisions, or the gaps between the results you're getting and the results you want.

Is the training library mine to keep after the program?

The Complete Dating System, its ten playbooks, and the article library are included for the duration of your Mentorship program.

They support the coaching while you're enrolled.

Is there a public price?

Yes. The Mentorship Program is $1,500 for 1 month, $4,250 for 3 months, or $8,000 for 6 months, each one payment up front.

Program length and investment are tailored to the support you agree on.

Your application call covers what you want to work on, how Mentorship would fit your situation, and the length that suits you. A custom length is priced from the same 1, 3 and 6-month prices, and the details are agreed before you enroll.

Tell us what you want to change.
You don't need to have the answer already.

1

Apply for Mentorship.

Tell us where you are with women, what you've tried, and what you want to improve.

2

Have your application call.

We discuss your situation and whether Mentorship is the right fit. You'll understand the proposed support, program length, and investment before deciding.

3

Get your coaching set up.

Once you enroll, we set up your primary coach, weekly sessions, messaging, and group-chat access.

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Confidential application · No obligation

Your first coaching call gives you a place to start.

You don't need to arrive with a perfect explanation of what's wrong.

  1. Your coach reviews where you are.

    Your dating life, goals, previous attempts, and the situations you want help with.

  2. You identify the first thing to work on.

    A clear priority instead of trying to fix everything at once.

  3. You agree on what to do before the next call.

    Something concrete to put into practice and bring back for feedback.

  4. You receive a brief written recap.

    The main issue, key adjustments, and your next focus.

Then the work continues, with your coach available between sessions and another call to review what happened.

Stop spending another month
wondering what to change.

Learn to walk over, create attraction, turn conversations into dates, and handle the situations that matter to you.

Get a coach who knows what you're working on, answers your questions, and helps you follow through.

Your own coach every week. Support between calls. A clear next step.

Apply for Mentorship
  • Confidential application
  • No obligation
  • Program length and investment agreed before you enroll