ColdApproach.io vs The Attractive Man, Coach Kyle, Hayley Quinn and more
You've probably got a few of these sites open in other tabs. Here they are side by side: what each one sells, who coaches you, where it happens, and how you start. Under each company's name, we link the pages we read.
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ColdApproach.io does two things. We coach you to meet women yourself, or our team runs your dating apps for you. You can train in person on a three-day Bootcamp in New York, Miami or Chicago. Or you can train online, with a coach on a video call every week.
Four of the others run bootcamps in person: The Attractive Man, John Anthony Lifestyle, Attraction Unleashed and Hayley Quinn. Hayley Quinn runs hers in London and New York City, and she coaches 1-on-1 herself. Coach Kyle coaches 1-on-1 himself and runs a free workshop on Zoom. VIDA Select is a matchmaking service. A matchmaker finds your matches and sets up the dates.
Seven companies, five questions
| Company | What you get | Who coaches you | Where the coaching happens | Done-for-you options | How you start |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| That's usColdApproach.ioSourcecoldapproach. | What you getCoaching: the Mentorship Program, the Bootcamp, 1-on-1 Calls and the Online Dating Mentorship. Done for you: the Online Dating Concierge, the Profile Makeover and AI Photos. | Who coaches youFive coaches with 4 to 11 years each, led by co-founders Matthew Stevens and Jorge Valencia. In the Mentorship Program, one coach runs your weekly call and all five coaches are in your group chat. | Where the coaching happensThe Bootcamp is in person, in New York, Miami or Chicago. The Mentorship Program, 1-on-1 Calls and the Online Dating Mentorship run on video calls. | Done-for-you optionsYes. With the Online Dating Concierge, our team redoes your photos and profile. Then we swipe and text for you until you have dates booked. The Profile Makeover and AI Photos rebuild your profile or your photos once. | How you startMentorship Program and Online Dating Concierge: apply, then book your application call. Everything else: buy it on the site. |
| Attraction UnleashedSourceattractionunleashed. | What you getLive bootcamps that last 2 to 4.5 days. They also have a mentorship and online courses like Attraction Mastery. | Who coaches youBeckster, joined by Mystery at some events and by guest coaches at others. | Where the coaching happensThe bootcamps are in person, on a world tour of cities. The courses are online. | Done-for-you optionsNot listed on the pages we link to. | How you startBook a free call, which they call a transformation call, or download their brochure. |
| Coach KyleSourcecoachkyledating. | What you get1-on-1 coaching with Kyle, a free live workshop, and an online group called Confidence & Self Mastery. | Who coaches youKyle Froonjian himself. He says he has coached more than 1,000 men. | Where the coaching happensThe free workshop runs on Zoom. The group is on Skool, and Kyle holds live calls there every month. | Done-for-you optionsNot listed on the pages we link to. | How you startSave a seat at the free one-hour workshop. For 1-on-1 coaching, watch a short video, apply, and get a 30-minute call. |
| Hayley QuinnSourcehayleyquinn. | What you getFor men: the Virtual Masterclass, Real Academy and Private Coaching. Real Academy is an online program plus a 4-day bootcamp. | Who coaches youHayley Quinn and her team. She says she has been a dating coach for 15+ years. | Where the coaching happensBoth. Bootcamps run in London and New York City. Private sessions run on Zoom or in person in London. | Done-for-you optionsReal Academy redoes your dating app profile. A stylist also works on your look with you. | How you startBook a free 30-minute call. For Private Coaching, you join her waitlist. |
| John Anthony LifestyleSourcejohnanthonylifestyle. | What you getOnline programs such as Occam's Razor, 3-day bootcamps and an 8-week mentorship. | Who coaches youJohn Anthony works with you himself in the 8-week mentorship. Bootcamp coaches run the bootcamps, with a limit of 3 students per coach. | Where the coaching happensThe bootcamps are 3 days, live and in person, in the cities on their schedule. The programs are online. | Done-for-you optionsNot listed on the pages we link to. | How you startAnswer a few quick questions. For a bootcamp, pick a city and book a call with their bootcamp coaches. |
| The Attractive ManSourcetheattractiveman. | What you getBootcamps of 3 days, advanced bootcamps of 7 days, workshops and personal coaching. | Who coaches youTheir team of coaches. On the 3-day bootcamp, you get over 10 hours of approaching with one of their coaches. | Where the coaching happensIn person. They say they've coached men in person in over 40 countries. | Done-for-you optionsNot listed on the pages we link to. | How you startBook a free call, which they call a dating breakthrough call. |
| VIDA SelectSourcevidaselect. | What you getMatchmaking. A matchmaker looks through their own pool of singles and some dating sites. Other matchmakers help them look. Then they pick the few worth meeting. | Who coaches youYou get your own matchmaker, who picks your matches. You can also add dating coaching and help with your image. | Where the coaching happensNot listed on the pages we link to. | Done-for-you optionsYes. The matchmaking is done for you, and you approve each match before a date. They also handle the messages, the scheduling and the date plans. | How you startTake a short online assessment. If you qualify, you book a free call with a matchmaker. |
Where these facts come from
We got each fact about another company from its own website. The pages we read are linked under each company's name. Where a site doesn't say something, we wrote that it isn't listed. If a company changes what it sells, tell us and we'll fix this page. Each company's name and brand belong to that company.
Questions men ask when they compare
Which of these companies coach you in person?
Our Bootcamp is three days in the field in New York, Miami or Chicago. Maximum three students per coach, or fully private. The Attractive Man, John Anthony Lifestyle and Attraction Unleashed run bootcamps in person too. Hayley Quinn runs hers in London and New York City.
Which ones can run my dating apps for me?
Our Online Dating Concierge redoes your photos and your whole profile. Then our team swipes and texts for you until you have dates booked. All you do is show up. VIDA Select is a matchmaking service. A matchmaker picks your matches, and you say yes to each one before the date. Hayley Quinn's Real Academy redoes your dating app profile.
Who will I actually work with at ColdApproach.io?
One of our five coaches. Each has 4 to 11 years of coaching. In the Mentorship Program your coach runs a weekly 60-minute video call. You can message your coaches any time and hear back within 24 hours, and all five coaches are in your group chat.
Do I need a call before I can start?
Only for the Mentorship Program and the Online Dating Concierge. You apply, then book your application call. On the call we agree on the plan and how long it runs. You buy everything else on the site: the Bootcamp, 1-on-1 Calls, AI Photos, the Profile Makeover and the Online Dating Mentorship. Then we email you to get started.
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