Get past the sticking points. Get better with women.

He wanted to get the next date right, not analyze it afterward.

I had a date coming up with a woman I really liked and booked a call because I didn't want to get in my own way. We talked through what I normally do on dates, where I tend to play it too safe, and what to focus on. I went into the date way more relaxed because I actually had a plan.

I spent half the call explaining the thing I was convinced was ruining my results. My coach basically told me, 'That isn't your problem.' He showed me what was actually happening instead. I'd probably still be trying to fix the wrong thing if I hadn't booked the call.

Already experienced. Still something important to work on.

I'm not a beginner and I wasn't looking for someone to teach me how to approach. I had one very specific pattern that kept showing up with women I was already attracting. The conversation was actually advanced and specific to what I was doing, which is exactly what I wanted.

The value grew as he put the coaching into practice.

The value wasn't any single call. It was being able to try what we discussed, come back with what happened, and keep refining it. By call five we were working on completely different problems than call one.

What I like about having multiple calls is that I don't have to start from zero every time. My coach already knows what I've been working on, what we changed, and what happened when I tried it. We can pick up from there and keep refining instead of spending half the call explaining my entire dating history.

I kept having dates that seemed to go well, but nothing romantic ever happened. We walked through my last two dates and my coach spotted the same pattern in both. I finally understood why women were treating me like a friend.

I booked the call because my matches had dropped and I couldn't figure out why. We went through my profile photo by photo and prompt by prompt. There were a few obvious problems I had completely stopped noticing because I'd looked at the profile so many times.

We started with my approaches. Once those improved, the next issue became what I was doing after getting the number. A few calls later we were working on my dates. Every time one part got better, we moved to the next thing.

I booked the call because I was seeing someone I genuinely liked and wasn't sure how to handle where things were going. We talked through the situation, what I wanted, and the conversation I needed to have with her. It was useful having someone look at it objectively instead of asking friends who all had different opinions.

I bought five calls thinking I'd use them for one problem. Instead, fixing that problem exposed the next one. Having the calls already there kept me moving instead of disappearing for another six months.

The best part was that I didn't leave with another hour of dating theory in my head. I left with two specific things to change and one thing to stop doing. I knew exactly what I was going to work on the next time I went out.